Question about daygame: approaching objectively hot women

voroku · 2019-02-02T19:58:54+00:00

I'm very new to this as well - from the stuff I've been watching so far, my understanding is that with every girl it's better to give a more specific compliment e.g. you like her bag, hair, style, etc. (and maybe elaborate on that?). Also, I think in general the only reason why you'd think about approaching a hot girl in some different way ( e.g. "oh i have to get my super serious game on now!") is because you're subconsciously putting her on a pedestal, even though she's just as human as you just like every person in the world ( an issue i'm currently trying to work on in my head). I think the reason people who document online their game get results with hot girls is because they're comfortable with themselves and can keep eye contact, not take things too seriously, but be proactive at the same time, that sort of stuff. I hope this helps, good luck!

bazookateeth · 2019-02-03T07:22:54+00:00

I’m sorry but the framing is going to mess you up. There are very few things in life when you study sociology and philosophy that are objective truths. The point that I’m trying to make her, is not that your objective truths are wrong or that you don’t have objective truths, but rather objectively hot women are just women.

This is what you have to work very hard towards to grasp. The second you start seeing people as being objectively hot, it becomes a ranking (are they hotter than me) when this occurs than you will probably feel inadequate, inferior, ugly or not good enough.

First off, bad way to go.

Secondly, it’s better to tell yourself that you find them attractive if you ever tell them that instead of, you fit the stereotypes of what beautiful is so thus I think your beautiful. If your going to work up the courage to talk to attractive women it’s good to give them a complement that feels personal to them. I.e. I love that your dimples bring your smile together or your freckles just make you so much cuter, etc

Thirdly, objectively attractive women don’t get approached as much as you’d think because men are often times afraid (outside of a bar or club where there is liquid courage involved) of approaching attractive women who they deem out of their league. For which to come full circle with my point...

Start diligently practicing seeing these women the same you’d see a women you were not attracted too. I know, it’s weird, it’s not easy and you may think that it’s dumb because you want to feel like you are attracted to them. It’s ok. It’s not easy but it will help your game tremendously! Once you get good at it, you won’t have an issue seeing them as both attractive but not attractive.

It’s just helping your brain not treat meeting certain women you find attractive as bein anything out of the ordinary until you are constantly surrounded by beautiful women, getting dates and getting laid, so it truly will not be out of the ordinary.

thisismyrealname2 · 2019-02-02T20:00:49+00:00

Thanks man

GGuy999 · 2019-02-02T20:37:08+00:00

Treat her like any other woman - don't use "special game", be confident and act normally. Super hotties are used to guys trying to impress her, sp don't "try hard".

WIA20XX · 2019-02-02T21:38:17+00:00

1) How successful are you with you direct openers with 6s and 7s?

2) I'm assuming you do the hi + compliment that most beginners do, what do you say next?

At the beginner level, instead of the "hi + compliment" you can do a observational opener, or an environmental opener. They both require observation and improvisation

Title	Question about daygame: approaching objectively hot women
Author	thisismyrealname2
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	February 2, 2019 5:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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