[Field Report] FIRST K-CLOSE: Then there was flames

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– SHAMELESS BREAKDOWN –

02/02/2019

Night Game

If you want the K-CLOSE story, read Set 3.

*BRIEF: Escalating. Verbally and Physically

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*DEBRIEF: Well I got the K-Close so HELL YES I FUCKING ACHIEVED MY GOAL!!

*CONTEXT*

- It was a friend of mine's birthday. We both love craft beer. Capital Craft had an bottomless beer event for the whole day at the low value of R220 (16.51 Freedom Dollars or 12,63 Pound). Now I don't like doing game drunk as I want to be able to approach women any time of the day without a hip flask attached to me so I drank water between my beers to keep a sober mind. I also only really gamed two sets because it was my friend's birthday and I wanted to spend time with long lost friends. P.S They are all still alive thus we did not need a Ouija board.

For fun I will throw in the bar lady to make the field rapport 3 sets

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*3 BEST SETS:*

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SET 1

- 13 year old boy.

Hope the title does not come off as pedo. If it didn't, that statement definitely might. Back to the set. The bar lady. She was flat chested and had a pixie cut, no real ass but I love my women small and petite and also she had tattoos. I love women with tattoos. I opened her by saying "That is real awesome tattoo" while I point to her shoulder with the skull on it. Going straight into a cold read, "It reminds me of day of the dead". She smiled and said it is. She also said she is going to color it in blue. I disagreed. I told her it is going to look bland and should rather use the colors of the Mexican flag. She seemed interested in the idea. I teased her a bit in her taste of creativity but that is basically where things died down. It was hard to game her since every sausage in the saloon (Not a Sausage Saloon reference) wanted to get a drink from her and it was her job to serve them. I also don't like gaming staff at my watering holes because if I blow it with them in a bad way then it will be unnecessary drama every time I go to the venue. I left it at that.

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SET 2

- I have a low self esteem and you still choded?

Man, this set was difficult. I got into game I realized how low self confident most people are, even worse. I came to realize how many beta males there are. Especially in my friend circle. Back to the story. I made eye contact with a blond across the room and she held it. I was in no real rush to go over as she had a tag as well. So she is definitely planning to be there for a while. Instead I racked up social proof. We were a group of 15 - 20 people. Mixed group, mostly couples and the rest single men. I wanted to find out how everyone was doing anyway so I went to talk to them. Eventually the blond "Julie" joined my table while I was talking to a friend, my friend was an athlete and I like running my self. I decided to ignore Julie as I am still talking to my friend. After I finished my conversation with my friend. I turned and introduced my self. I asked her how she fit into the picture. Apparently she was a pole dance instructor and that is how she became friends with some people on the table. I tried to make a joke "You probably went into this business to get people to dance for you on poles". She responded with "I am a pole dance instructor"...

What?

I think I talked to softly or my body language did not convey it as a joke. This threw me completely off the rails and I excused my self. Chode, should have stayed in the set. Some time after I went inside with a friend of mine and there she was talking to some people from my table. I re-opened the set and my friend told me that she is an art teacher for kids as well but I should see her paintings. I made a joke and said "It is probably like pictures of naked old dudes". Laughter in the group. You know the ironic thing was... she actually painted naked old people but stated it later on. We started platonic chatting. She started qualifying me hard. She told me she did art, she is a teacher, a model, dance instructor, pole dancer and so on. I should have broken rapport here like told her I am not interviewing her for a job or some shit. Instead I continued telling her my hobbies and what I do for a living. The set got cold and I excused my self.

Chode 2 Alpha 0

Later I saw her standing by her self. I went over and asked her "If there is something wrong with you (before you keyboard ninja me I did this in a playful matter) because it looks like your friends ditched you." She laughed and said she has a hart problem so she is not actually supposed to be in smoking areas. This time around I did MUCH better. I isolated her immediately to a corner table in the venue. We were getting into vibing and I started introducing physicality. Touched and asked what her tattoos meant. She jumps right in "I have low self-esteem, my friend committed suicide on my birthday and my mom tried to take her own life 3 times." WTF? Right! Then while she was explaining the tattoos a chode from my table, joined the set. I introduced her to him. Saying how great he was to show that I only have high-value friends. Sadly he does not know jack shit about game and he got jealous that I was getting somewhere with her so naturally he started throwing shit tests my way. You should see how fucked up drunk this guy gets (That was my old self but I know if I justify my self then I lose value) so I tried over exaggerate. Yeah I jump off buildings. She was shocked and then I added with a cord strapped around my feet which I had to pay for.This joke also did not stick and I probably could have been much more creative but I moved on to bungee jumping as a topic. I went to the bathroom. I was trying to get the girl for my self not him. Also she was not interested in him at all. She was gone.

Chode 3 Alpha 0

I saw her afterwards standing aside with her friend. Did not approach.

Chode 4 Alpha 0

Then I went to the stand up comedy part and stood on the other side of the pub to watch it. I saw in the far she was also watching but at another door. I thought "Wave!" but no this monkey brain did not. Eventually I muster up the courage to wave to her and call her over but she either did not see me or chose to ignore me. Next time act on your stupid thoughts immediately

Chode 5 Alpha 0

That was it with this set. Man she was real pretty too. I really wanted her number. Blond, blue eyes and a slender body.

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SET 3

- I understand the pain but it won't stop me.

My friends left at 23:00. It was just me and a great friend of mine called "Jakes". This guy is a fucking legend. He was piss drunk and did not speak a word but winged me like a true champ. As my friends turn around to go home, I saw a couple sitting together and the girl was familiar. See we made eye contact as well and she held it. I knew she was attracted but I did not approach earlier as she had a boyfriend. When I saw them sitting behind us I started talking to them straight away. My best friend told them that they should just call her when I get out of hand as a joke. I followed up with "I escaped from a zoo and they have been looking after me ever since" laughter all around. Social proof in the bag. We sit down and we get talking. Remember Jakes... yes he is still piss drunk, busy smoking a cigarette, does not talk a single word and also kept standing. Eventually the girl asked him why he is so quite and standing. "Don't bother Jakes! He has gout in his feet. If he sits, the gout grows. Also he has lung cancer that is why he is so quite". Laughter all around. I asked eventually how long their relationship was going on for. She immediately responded with "OH! No! *laughter* he is my best friend". Please have a moment of silence for our fallen chode. Man this struck a chord in my body. This was the reason I started getting into game. I was in the friend-zone for 4 years. I decided well dude, you don't stand a chance so I am going to game her. Started flirting with her especially pointing out her beautiful red curly hair. and I could see this guy is getting uncomfortable. 10 minutes later and her drink is done. I told her to come with me so we can fetch more drinks. He interrupted. "I am done, I want to go home". Their logistics were weird. They had to go back home as she and the chode is sleeping over at her parents house. "I want one more drink". I jump in to stop the cock block. "4 more minutes, one more drink then I have to go as well" and before he can say anything I grabbed her hand and lead her to the bar.

He tried to follow us, probably to cock block me.

OH NO! What ever shall I do. *Super Man theme song plays* It's a bum. It's a chode, It's SuperWing! Yes, Jakes the piss drunk guy that only stands and don't speak a single word magically grew the power of speech. Calls him out and ask him a question. He stays. Me and my girl are walking hand on hand up to the bar. I order drinks and then while we wait we danced to the music. Grabed her by the hips and she threw her arms around me. Deep strong eye contact. Just talking slowly. Building the sexual tension. Drinks arrive, we grab the beer and head back. At the doors I stop. I say "Wait", turn around and look her deep in her eyes. I have to do this and I went in for the kill. We made out. YES! My first time I got a same night k-close without being pissed drunk. Also it was my first k-close with game. It was not a long kiss though. She pulled away and said I don't even know you. Now I realized only the next day that I did not really build a connection with her and that is a big reason why I think her slut defense jumped in. I tried to justify it by saying how adventures she is. Basically giving her an excuse why she just made out with a random dude.

We walk back and now I am trying to lower her slut defense (In my opinion she is gorgeous and not a slut). I decide to tell the group a story about a friend of mine that is open sexually and how I support it. I think I failed as I don't know any friends that are open sexually. I would really like to make my game as natural as possible and not lie about stories while I game. My idea is that if I have to lie then I am manipulating her. Back to the story. I finish up the story, excuse my self to the bathroom and while there I decide to isolate her and get the digits as the bar is now closed and I know they will be leaving soon.

I walk up immediately and say "I am borrowing your friend, we will be back in a few minutes" I look over and pointed at her "Promise you won't make a move on me", she laughed and promised. I tried setting up a time bridge "How is your schedule looking, I am open on Monday. Let us go do something" "I live with my parents so it is really hard to go out during the week." She is turning 21 this year before you start judging. Me:"Give me your number" She starts reading it out

Me:"Wait. What is my name?"

Her:"Oh NO! I forgot"

Me:"Then I can't take your number"

Her: "I will give you a kiss if you tell me"

*Fuck that I am the prize*

Me: "That is not how this works. You can't just walk up to a stripper and ask the stripper to pay you."

She then laughed and did not know how to respond. I told her she is cute so I will let it pass once. She gave me her number and she aimed for the table. I stopped her "Hey, wait you made a promise". She turned around and we made out but very little. I teased her "Sies, that is how I kiss my granny. I thought you are adventures". Then there were flames. This time we made out properly. I made sure to pull away first so that I don't show neediness. We went back and as expected the chode wanted to leave. They got up and left.

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Chode 5 Alpha 1

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*3 POSITIVES: What did I do well tonight?*

- I stuck to the "I am the prize" frame

- I dodged shit tests

- I escalated physically

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*3 NEGATIVES: What did I NOT do well tonight?*

- I need to escalate more verbally

- I did not build a proper connection

- I did not act upon my thoughts, thus applying filters (Should be a no filter zone!)

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*3 LESSONS: What are the lessons?*

- You don't need to know about game to be a wing. This means making friends with a group of people can actually wing me without knowing.

- Don't assume that a mixed 2 set is a couple. He could be gay for all I know.

- That calibration is key. I messed up set 2 a couple of times due to lack of calibration

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*QUESTIONS: What questions do I have?*

- Was there a possible way I could have pulled my last set. Logistics was kind of fucked?

- Could I have handled my friend in someway without decreasing my value to his level or was ignoring him fine?

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*ACTION ITEM:*

Verbal Escalation and Practicing my frame. It is still not 100% stable

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