how to be not needy

TheRedTriad · 2019-02-17T07:23:40+00:00

Not porn, fuck that guy.

Invest in yourself - lifting and getting in shape is the most straight forward investment. There are other ways of course, but this is the best start.

You are needy because you are too invested in what others think and how they percieve you, take these precious emotional investments and put them in yourself.

schmoejoe1866 · 2019-02-18T18:28:05+00:00

There really isn’t a one size fits all answer for this but you need to understand that the opposite of neediness should be abundance. You could try anything from leaning into your hobbies to taking up a new skill or even diving into religious/philosophical questions. Essentially do whatever truly excites you and make a habit of making calculated steps outside of your comfort zone to do whatever you want.

A huge portion of game is communicating abundance and excitement in your life and it’s way easier to communicate those things if you actually spend the time and effort necessary to develop them.

ntipz011 · 2019-02-17T06:59:45+00:00

Get more girls

Get busy with work or hobbies

Realize that girls won't fix your inner issues

Find good porn

Title	how to be not needy
Author	theodous
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	February 17, 2019 6:58 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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