I've been lurking on TheRedPill for about 6 months, but made this as a throwaway as some friends know my username.

So I met this girl last year. Got really close to her. Told her I liked her, she friendzoned me and that was the end of it. I did genuinely enjoy her company so I did remain friends with her, maybe my first mistake.

Fast forward about 6 months and she got a boyfriend. A couple of months into their relationship he made her choose between being friends with me or carrying on seeing him. She chose him, so we stopped talking. I saw her on a night out without her boyfriend and she was really close to me, holding my hand etc. About 2 months after that she broke up with her boyfriend. She apologised to me, A LOT, for what she did and I didn't like her at this point so all was forgotten. She told me the reason that she broke up with her boyfriend was because she missed me and also repeatedly told me I was never allowed to get a girlfriend.

We text all the time and she stays over after night outs occasionally, but nothing has ever happened. I've started getting feelings for her again which is what I really didn't want to happen.

I also got with her best friend recently, to see how it went down, which she then told me I wasn't allowed to do, and when we were drunk, told me that her best friend could never replace her in my life.

I'm very confused and have no idea what to do. I have been to the gym a lot in the last year and I'm a completely different person to what I was the first time I liked her so maybe the situation is different this time? Or maybe I'm just kidding myself. Basically I was just looking for a different opinion on the situation, and whether you think I should just stop talking to her completely.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.