• This story is for motivational purpose, for the ones that, just like me, don't believe they could have incredible night out like this •

Hi everybody, just for having a sense of context, I'm a 22 years old Italian student not so experienced in game, currently living in Milan.

After months of random daygame practise, and after a long period of nights with friends and colleagues , I decided to get out, as some dudes say on YouTube , in "Solo" mode, on Thursday night.

Here in Italy getting out solo is quite a weird thing, because, society says you "should" have your group, you "should" have your girlfriend , you "should" stay in your (comfort) zone. Basically live your life wasting it.

"Ok f**k it, I need adventure! " (That's what I said)

So I went to this Open Wine (open bar with served wine) aperitif (quite common here, and events like this are the best to find girls in talkative and friendly/enjoyable mood), and, after some doubts about the venue, people etc I decided to get inside the garden where there was the party.

The incredible thing is that once you're in the venue, and maybe you've paid to get in, your brain stoups doubting and making you feel like a insecure people, and immediately starts to say "Ehi, let's make this situation profitable! There are some hot chicks over there, there and there !"

Advice for everyone : approaching should be easy going, indirect and should convey the idea that you have huge balls, great personality BUT you don't need to demonstrate it .

So once approached few groups (not only girls, for instance I started approaching with a group of guys, just to put my self in a more relaxed and talkative mood), I immediately started feeling that I haven't ever really needed a wing for nightgame !

Do you know why this happens ? Because approach, talk, enjoy time with strangers and be flirty with girls is basically INSIDE our genes, so we don't need to learn it, we need to learn out to make these abilities come out !

After 4 groups of girls, I found a group of 18 years old girls, really friendly and talkative , so we spent some time talking and joking, and, in 30-40 minutes (meanwhile I sometimes got absent from the "set" , REMEMBER, this is IMPORTANT : never make people you know in the night feel and know you have no other things to do than approaching girls , or , worse, approaching THEM) I found myself on a bench in the garden I was , with the cute blondie of the group on me, kissing wildly each other, while my hands were one under her pants on her ass, the other under her bra.

After 15 minutes her friend came, and we returned to the place we were before.

Then I went away, no asking for number contact or Instagram as everyone does here when finds some hot chick.

I can now admit to myself and basically to everybody that this was one of the most incredible experiences of my life, in terms of emotional and self-esteem gain. And that's why I'm writing this here : guys DONT WAIT for wings, YOU ARE DIFFERENT, YOU CAN DO THING PEOPLE DREAM OR WATCH TV SERIES ABOUT.

Go out, enjoy your life, be open to new things, good or bad, try, learn and get better.

Fuck groups, fuck wings (only if you have less profit with them respect without them) , fuck tinder's seductors, fuck female friends holding you down, making you settle for "we're just friends " on Friday evenings.

You deserve more.