Help me improve my direct approach game!

WIA20XX · 2019-04-23T11:32:56+00:00

That's how direct approaches go. Sounds like yours are going better than most.

You tell her she's cute. She does a quick assessment on your looks and how she feels at the time, and that's it.

So work out, dress well, hair cut on point, smell good. You can try to swagger up, but direct forces the girl to make a snap judgment, so you have to focus on your snap judgment impression.

SpicyYeetJuice · 2019-04-23T04:14:46+00:00

Have longer conversations, if I was a bird I would be pretty skeptical/worried about making plans with someone I’ve only talk to for less than five minutes. I would also try bringing a date up mid convo instead of at the end, because she’s more likely to say no if she knows your gonna dip in like 15 seconds. Also you should generally make the girl laugh, the two best ways of doing that is a joke relevant to the conversation and teasing her. Just MAKE SURE to laugh at your own joke or at least find it funny because if you don’t it’s gonna look very validation seeking.

dailymanup · 2019-04-23T06:12:26+00:00

You're missing Sexual Frame. It's all about confidence. It's all about attitude. It's not about words. When you up your sexual frame, everything else becomes so much easier.

zincSF · 2019-04-23T15:30:28+00:00

There are many "methods". The london daygame system (torero videos on youtube) would have you instantly following up your compliment not with a "I'm here to say hello" statement but a statement about her, an observation or assumption, based on how she looks, what she's doing, what she's wearing, etc. It can be simple, it can be flamboyant, it's where you're true skills start to shine. It can be teasing too. "I see you are all in black, maybe you're going to a funeral or something" (even though you know damn well she isn't). The other day I stacked after my direct compliment with "with that hair, you kind of remind me of a flamingo!". That worked! She had some hair sticking straight up from the top of her head in a flowerpot look with a little pink in it! The point of the stack statement is to get her to respond "about herself", which is always a woman's favorite topic. Whatever she responds with...vibe and comment on or off of, and away you go. You are working for her to ask YOU a question, at which point, she is "hooked" and you can lower the energy a little and have a fun conversation, demonstrate some value, maybe tease, ideally get in a little kino (high 5 over something for example), and in the 5-10 minutes timeframe (no more), either suggest an instant-date ("how about coffee over there?", or, "shall we go over to those benches and chat a little more?") or a # close (you know I really like you and would like to know more, give me your number and I'll text you and we'll find a time, okay?). Torero vid's have lots of real in field examples of this whole process. Best of luck!

Title	Help me improve my direct approach game!
Author	the5percenter
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	April 23, 2019 3:34 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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