see i'm in college and someone told me fuck game in college, just get to know girls and be yourself (because ur becoming an adult which is when u should be finding ur freedom anyway) and go out and drink and shit and it might seem that getting laid would be easier. of course looksmaxing yourself is key. i need advice particularly on the college shit and hopefully real life stories

one time i like went to this bar and there was this cute girl and i said hey and she smiled and said hey and i was like whats your name and she said blah blah and i said my name and of course at the time i was a chicken shit so i bolted but she kinda giggled and said nice to meet u almost as if she would have liked it to go somewhere but she knew i was just scared

help