Girl was interested but I fucked up because of anxiety

Sitchnatio · 2019-04-29T14:38:51+00:00

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theepicstoner · 2019-04-29T15:09:26+00:00

Forget social media and dating apps. Go talk to girls in real life, improved my life 100%

JulioMaxmimus · 2019-04-29T15:14:34+00:00

Dude I can't emphasize this enough. You need to stop taking advice from this subreddit. I was about to post about all the mistakes I made by following the advice on this sub and how it took me nearly 2 years to purge my thought process of all the poor advice given to me here.

I had an exact same situation. Let me tell you. This girl was fine. Hot. At least an 8 by any standard. Blonde with admirable tits. I'm talking everything. She could have been a 9. Anyway I meet her while going out and she immediately goes wild asking me all these questions. I even had a little anxiety while talking to her. Then she says she wants to go out some time. She gives me her SpapChat and then says let's do something soon. As she's leaving the bar going down the steps she screams out "I love you Evan!". So. Then what do I do? I freak out and wait 3 days in between SnapChatting her. Also making the mistake of trying to ask for her Phone number from SnapChat. Literally thinking she wasn't into me enough or some bullshit that someone might have told you in here like - "If you don't get their phone number, you haven't really scored them yet". And She blocked me on SnapChat because basically I was a dick and hurt her feelings.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-04-29T21:13:14+00:00

Your problem is you think too far ahead. Don't think about what happens if you mess up or whatnot. Just go to that date and act like natural. Don't worry about her not liking you because the best you can do is be yourself, and if that's not what she is looking for, nothing you can do because you can't be anyone else.

Title	Girl was interested but I fucked up because of anxiety
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	April 29, 2019 1:48 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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Dude I can't emphasize this enough. You need to stop taking advice from this subreddit. I was about to post about all the mistakes I made by following the advice on this sub and how it took me nearly 2 years to purge my thought process of all the poor advice given to me here.