I keep getting blocked/rejected

Shepsus · 2019-05-07T18:16:41+00:00

You've posted this question a lot in varying forms on various threads. Hopefully I can be straight forward enough with you to understand: There is no secret answer.

But we can improve your odds. First -

How old are you?

What do you look like?

Are you fat? Skinny?

Are you balding? Or do you have long hair?

Do you have facial hair? Beard? Mutton chops? Goatee? Mustache?

Do you need glasses or contacts?

What do you wear on a regular basis?

Loose fitting shirt? T Shirt? Collared? Sweater? Bands? Pokemon? Black or colorful?

Jeans? Loose/baggy? Skinny jeans? belt? Skirts?

Shoes, what do your shoes look like? Worn? Beat up? Or do you have several pair?

Do you wear hats? What kind of hats are you wearing?

Any other accessories - rings, watches, necklaces, swords, bracelets?

What are your hobbies outside of Reddit?

Do you play video games? Board games? Karaoke? Code? Play an instrument? Hang out with friends? Do you smoke weed or do drugs

What do you do for work?

Anything you are particularly proud of?

Any fun/good stories you enjoy sharing with friends?

Such as a too drunk moment, or met a celebrity, or designed something you liked. Anything conversation worthy

I will try to help you, but you need to answer the questions above as honestly as possible.

WhatsReddit123456 · 2019-05-07T19:29:47+00:00

Do you feel you are going for girls that are not in your league? Or are you failing with girls regardless if they are really good looking or less than average?

oliseo · 2019-05-07T20:26:28+00:00

Did you ASK them if you could add them before you added them?

This is KEY, let them make the choice, and then they will be EXPECTING your friend request.

Also, people are generally a lot more wary of strangers friend requesting them out of the blue, because of all the (incorrect) issues of "viruses", etc.

So if the Girl is "expecting" your friend request, then they will accept your request.

But springing a friend request 3 months later after meeting them one time, then no, they are just going to block you, because girls get shedloads of random friend requests, especially if they are pretty.

Either add them in person there and then, or ask them if you can add them at a later date, and then add them the next day.

And yes, some of them WILL still not entertain adding you. For the simple reason, they don't know you well enough, or that adding random strange guys when they are in a relationship is going to cause them issues.

It could even be your content that's offputting. Have a friend who you trust go through your account with you and get their feedback.

But most of all, ASK first.

Title	I keep getting blocked/rejected
Author	Zeroluckwiththegirls
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	May 7, 2019 5:25 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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