Guys in college, how are you meeting girls on campus?

NotEvenLegit · 2019-05-12T18:31:58+00:00

I’m also in college right now, my best advice is to go to club meets and expand social circle. In club meets girls actually want to meet and make friends. Just be cool and fun, get their contact and set up meet ups.

snaug · 2019-05-12T18:42:42+00:00

I've also experienced some of the feelings you're describing. Struggling to be authentic, worried about ruining my reputation, worried about being creepy... I think one potential solution to this problem is to embrace the authenticity issue. Look, on a college campus there could be like 10-20 cute girls each day that you'd be more than happy to sleep with, but you aren't going to be very sincere about any one of them in particular, bc there are so many. For them, they will sense the lack of sincerity bc they are probably inundated with that kind of attention - like even more so than usual.

What I want to try and focus on is making sure that I am genuinely interested in a girl before approaching her. Like she can't just be cute, she has to be special. Then, if I approach that girl, I can really avoid half-stepping. Even if she rejects me, she won't see me as a creep, bc my energy was genuine and it was hopefully clear that I was not just trying to fuck her one time.

Actually this has worked a couple times. I've done a few of these "sincere" approaches, and although I was served three rejections, the girls were neutral at worst and flattered at best. I have definitely creeped other girls out before so I know (and appreciate) the difference. Authenticity is the key. And if you're really just trying to fuck girls, I'd say campus is not a great place for that. Go to bars/clubs instead where the expectation for that is present.

Good luck, bro.

BushIndian · 2019-05-12T21:12:31+00:00

School

•people will judge me from my first impression

•first gain popularity, then be super different and stand out, be the popular guy!

•go to lot's of parties and become the center of the converstaions/attention

•become friends with everybody first and be the party, let people want to become my friends

•don't make people feel judged for they're drinking

•be social before and after lectures

•sit next to hot girls, being social, getting to know them while not being overly flirtatious

•everybodies most interesting topic is themselves(first be interested, then become interesting)

•introduce people to each other, become the counterpoint of socialcircles

•ask people what they're up to, then "oh cool, I'm doing blabla, wanna join?"

•be the guy who offers it(value), invite everybody to anything

•hunter(day/nightgame) vs. farmer(collegegame), work for the popularity and later on, harvest pulls

•don't do approaches on the campus, go for the social circle

•escalate only in "isolation", otherwise be more like the gentleman(leave room for speculation)

•at a party, commit to one girl I wanna fuck and hang out next to her

•don't go for a close, wait until it's bed time and 'bring her to her door/grab bite to eat'

•the player vibe is good, being known to close the hot girls is good(fuck only the best ones)

•project being picky to heighten their status instead of feeling slutty

•be the gentleman that don't brags about it (slowly waiting for my reputation to build up)

•don't seek results until girls are actually coming towards me and having hot girls in my social circle?

2019-05-12T19:44:14+00:00

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SandtheB · 2019-05-13T03:22:48+00:00

I am not in college but, I live in a college town and the bars have TONS of college girls that go there. You can approach them there, and slowly get better. I have a feeling that with a huge state school like ASU, UCLA, USC etc. "That one girl from that one night" probably won't remember you when she sees you again, even if you did 'creep her out a little that one time' the best thing to do is to move on and approach other girls at a different bar. Also, Most college towns have TONS of bars you can talk to women at, so if I couldn't make it work with one anyone at one bar I just go to the next bar and start over.

With that said it's summer time, students have left and will be back in a few months, be social and focus on day game.

Title	Guys in college, how are you meeting girls on campus?
Author	IntelligentStatus0
Upvotes	14
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Date	May 12, 2019 6:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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