I often see posts where someone advises ''You need to actually apply this stuff''

Now, i'm having 2 very different problems with this that I need some help solving lol

Problem number 1

Almost everything on this sub is basically 'what you say doesn't matter', 'be the prize, be a man on his path with hobbies' kind of thing.

But then what is there to actually 'apply'? Like, in practice, when it comes to me hitting on some hot girl?! There's not any rules which, whilst liberating, puts you on the same level as the guy whose never heard of game really

Problem number 2

Actually the complete opposite. There are still a VERY small minority of people who concentrate on 'outer game' and believe that what you say is EXTREMELY important, and there's routines and lines. There's remembering to do things like qualify the girl, disqualify her, disqualify yourself, tease, banter lines, flpiping the script, DHV stories, sexualising, missinterpreting her, remembering the 'order' that some of these things go etc. My issue is that, in the moment, I can't for life of me remember any of this stuff. I'd need to be the rainman. And when I do, it seems to be at the expense of my natural charisma in a way if that makes sense.