What’s your go-to “let’s go back to my place” excuse?

DriedUpPlum · 2019-05-19T19:28:31+00:00

If there is a significant level of attraction “lets get the fuck out of here” is more than ample.

“Where?”

“Who lives closer?”

If you’ve already been making out then this shouldn’t be a leap.

Eventually, when you get your game down you can pretty much come out and say “Let’s fuck.” Which can lead into a whole other branch of seduction... lol.

“Want to hear me play guitar?” Is weak because she already knows that you want more but you are trying to be cute(sneaky) about it.

It may work on college girls for a little but people get really board hearing the same thing from every guy that knows a few chords.

lesntoomy · 2019-05-19T19:46:10+00:00

Get her used to going there before hand its a psychological trick. Find some excuse like "I need to feed my fish" buy a small fishbowl with a fish in it. Or any lame excuse like that. Excuse for coming over can be "i make an awesome ceasar salad" Or want to watch a movie, have some tea or coffee desert etc. Be sure you are escalating flirting from verbal to touch during the date to make the moment right. If you get last minute resistance pre empt her like "maybe we shouldn't do this" if you sense she is going to say it next. If she says it first agree and say yeah its cool lets just kick back and relax no big deal. Big mistake guys make here is to keep pushing and kill the moment. She usually doesn't mean she doesn't want it but is trying to protect her image.

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-05-19T20:19:54+00:00

At one point during the first date I might just go either "so, my place or your place?" or "do you want to go home with me?" - kinda like the apocalypse opener, except not used as an opener.

An alternative is to invite the girl over for a movie another time.

thats-lame · 2019-05-19T22:28:50+00:00

“Wanna smoke?”

Title	What’s your go-to “let’s go back to my place” excuse?
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Date	May 19, 2019 7:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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