Some things I constantly hear on here is "Rejection has nothing to do with you", "it's not personal" and "you can't change her reaction to you". I like this.

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But on the other hand this sub is mainly about self-improvement. Say a girl rejects you and has a bad reaction to you. If you are constantly trying to improve yourself, and approach the same girl a year later it seems very likely that she will respond more positively to the new version of you no?

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The bottom line is that are countless things you can do to improve yourself and be more attractive to women. And in this regard it seems the initial rejection WAS personal, because at the time that you approached her you were not everything you could be. Thoughts?