Does buying drinks actually turn women off?

_lov3rboy · 2019-07-18T17:28:38+00:00

Yes as If you are buying her time

quinnmcd · 2019-07-18T17:13:31+00:00

Your not exploiting anyone if they offered to do it for you. I don’t like anyone buying me drinks tbh.

Buying women drinks turns them off because is shows weakness and how fragile you are. They assume you’re not interesting if you need a drink as a way to get their attention. Most women know your motives behind getting them a drink and they start using that to their advantage.

My main point is once women realize you’ll do something (in this case buying a drink) for them by doing nothing, they won’t respect you. Don’t do anything for women unless they deserve it.

Its_A_Nice_Day · 2019-07-18T20:38:11+00:00

Depends on the situation.

the "don't buy drinks" situation usually applies to when you're trying to cold approach or have barely struck up convo and are trying to buy her approval

if you're already intimately conversing and clearly feeling each other after talking for awhile then yeah offer a drink when the waiter comes but ONLY if you're getting a drink yourself

dani098 · 2019-07-18T18:49:25+00:00

I’ve never bought a woman drinks in my 35 years of existence

HotGirlAppreciation1 · 2019-07-19T00:48:21+00:00

If they’re friends then take turns buying rounds. If you’re interested in dating a girl or on a date then definitely buy the drinks! Chivalry my man, it goes a long way!

lugrulo · 2019-07-18T17:11:59+00:00

Some women just use men for drinks, you might just be filtering out those ones now.

Redditaspropaganda · 2019-07-18T22:56:55+00:00

idk, i'll buy a drink if i can tell shes more than interested. i dont think it matters that much then. i just do it to keep the convo flowing

Topgun157 · 2019-07-19T08:06:52+00:00

It depends, in my opinion buying drinks for a girl gets your foot in your door, but she will quickly slam that door right in your face if you show that the buying her a drink is a massive crutch for you. Guys probably buy drinks for her all the time, it's up to you to separate yourself from the rest, engage with, gauge her interest, see if you can escalate. Of course, every girl is different and there is no full-proof method, do whatever works best for you.

Cool188 · 2019-07-19T02:50:42+00:00

if you're ugly

Title	Does buying drinks actually turn women off?
Author	Janimous
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	July 18, 2019 4:43 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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