Is it better to be direct and ask a girl out fast or to be friend with her first ?

DriedUpPlum · 2019-07-18T20:46:13+00:00

Direct.

Read Models.

2019-07-18T21:20:47+00:00

Direct. It works like a filter. Because : if you want a girl you want her NOW; if she can't (bf reasons or whatever) she will have to say to you, and you won't waste time trying to please her and spend time in the friend-zone.

Being direct is not about making the girl knowing what you want (because almost all the boys want the same from girls), but it is about making her knowing you won't settle for less.

kalz44 · 2019-07-18T21:18:05+00:00

Don't be her friend if you want to ask her out but also don't ask her out for the sake of it.

civilsavage69 · 2019-07-18T23:13:51+00:00

Ok, dont let this confuse you; the proper way to be is... indirectly direct.

To clarify, you never just be blunt and come out and say you like her. You say and do everything that skirts around it... that SKIRTS... that... FLIRTS. its called flirting, suggesting you like her without saying you like her.

Title	Is it better to be direct and ask a girl out fast or to be friend with her first ?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	July 18, 2019 8:45 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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