Any tips for getting laid on first date?

skatinislife446 · 2019-07-27T02:04:21+00:00

The main focus of your first date should be to have fun while remaining non-needy. Add in some flirting, escalation, logistics (place to get laid), and the girl might sleep with you on the first date. You could also do all of that perfectly and not get laid. Women really are the gatekeepers to sex and need to feel comfortable to have it.

First thing you should do is make assumptions to create sexual tension. Making assumptions allows you to be bold, respond by teasing, and give the girl an emotional experience. Don’t interview a girl. “What’s your favorite drink?” should instead be “I can see you chugging a straw-ber-rita right now.” If you get it right, they’ll love you. If you’re wrong, they’ll love that you were bold enough to say what you want and not worry about offending them. You should be mixing in flirting while teasing and also, LISTENING. A big part of seduction that gets overlooked is making the girl feel like you’re interested in her personally, not just her pussy.

As for physical escalation, never force it, and always be patient. You can be 2/3 of the way through the date without touching her. That’s fine. The longer you wait, the more receptive she’ll be as her comfort grows. In my experience, the easiest way to smoothly introduce physical touch is to dance, comment on a girl’s jewelry—take her hand and comment on her ring (brush her hair back for earrings)—or ask her if she hits the gym and test her biceps when you playfully tell her to flex.

You must lead if you want to get laid. Girls want to fuck on the first date same as a guy, but they’re much more stubborn about it. You will have to confidently and dominant lead them to the bedroom, all while making them feel secure.

Here’s an example from just last night: after making out with a girl in my car in front of her place, and cars behind me interfering, I took another lap around the block. One turn before her house was a back street and a stop sign. I put it in park and we kept making out. Second base came. She said a few times she’ll see me next week and I just kissed her again. She asked when are we going to stop and I slyly said when a car comes.

She rubbed my dick and I pulled it out. Got a first date bj in my car in the middle of the street. Had she not been on her period we would have went all the way. I lead her to it seductively, but she never felt uncomfortable because I wasn’t needy at all. In the past, I would have been to scared to lead her there on the first date, and let her go after the first make-out. Now I know that girls want it as much as we do. Just gotta take the reins.

Based-Lukashenko · 2019-07-27T02:36:07+00:00

Just do not go Cosby style😂

MyKnicka84 · 2019-07-27T03:48:36+00:00

Trying to get laid is your first mistake just play it cool

yoproldn · 2019-07-27T08:24:53+00:00

Multiple venues.

NairbHna · 2019-07-27T01:51:58+00:00

Well if you haven’t already put out a filter that filters out the goodie two shoes then this is a toss up really. Start with a sexual vibe and push it. If she isn’t reciprocating then it’s probably over. Don’t be too pushy however there’s a balance.

Title	Any tips for getting laid on first date?
Author	LordMvulcan
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	July 27, 2019 1:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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