Idk why I'm posting this, I just like writing I guess.

Being yourself is the best advice a person can give. Unfortunately, its similar to "be happy" or "be confident." So essentially, its kind of great advice and horrible advice at the same time.

Our true nature is confidence, contentment, curiosity, fearlessness, wittiness, and all of the other things that girls find attractive. So while be yourself is accurate, its really about figuring out how to be yourself.

Most of us are slaves to our minds. Beliefs, fears, insecurities and so on have all been accumulating in our heads and totally distorting who we really are.

Many guys who can't get laid dream of finally banging a girl. But I think most guys here could agree that the best part about becoming "good" at game is the fact that it teaches you how to be yourself.

Rather than layering things on, I think what it all comes down to is removing the layers. Realizing your true nature and removing all the fake layers that keep you from being yourself. Part of this is not believing your thoughts. Losing trust in your mind.

It's not easy, and I can't give the magic advice here, but I wanted to share this nevertheless.