I’m trying to sleep with girls. Period. I don’t care how it happens as long as I’m not paying for it.

I’ve been in a dry spell for my whole life. In the last year, I’ve banged one girl who I couldn’t get it up for, and I’ve banged my ex like 10 times. And something deep down is telling me it’s time to satisfy this urge and stop fucking around.

Demographics - 24 year old male, attractive but socially behind. When I’m not anxious, I’m pretty solid socially. Good at escalation, etc.

Currently, I’m not very social. I have lots of anxiety. If I talk to a girl, my entire face feels paralyzed and I can’t act right. If I talk to a guy, I have a similar level of anxiety but less extreme. I was also recently diagnosed with Lyme which I am told is causing many neurological issues, so hopefully some of this clears up with treatment. I generally avoid bars and night clubs as I constantly analyze how I’m behaving and don’t know how to let go. In general, my interactions with people feel heavy and like a lot of effort.

I just want to start getting laid and feel socially freer. I am willing to put in the work. hopefully you guys can give me some advice that caters to where I’m at right now.