Met this girl. Probably a 7.5ish. Almost hooked up, but she didn’t want to in the end. She said she wanted to wait until this weekend (semi established plans to see each other at bars). We basically had sex though. I was everything but actually inside her. When she’d pull away, I’d tell her it was totally cool. She wanted me so bad, I have decent experience so I know for sure, but something was holding her bad. I think she felt like a slut. Was constantly worrying throughout the night that people were judging us for kissing. Only met her 5 ish hours ago.

Anyways, she just took an Uber home and I need some advice on post-hookup texting. She doesn’t have my number I have hers. When should I text her? Some say post hookup something funny or sweet, others say wait a couple days. But I think this girl genuinely liked me as a person, not just attracted to me. Idk if that changes things. Also wondering what I could have done to get it in, ya feel? I tried taking charge too and even just trying to put it in, but she pulled away. In the end it seemed there was nothing I could do, but maybe I’m wrong.