Hey guys, I have a question for some of you who have made the journey from being a chode to being confident and going out / approaching. The reason I don't go out much or approach is because throughout my day, whether I'm talking with my therapist, the person at the grocery store, a friend, etc, I always feel slightly awkward and uncomfortable. I've had THOUSANDS of conversations with normal people and STILL don't feel that confident.

So when I hear people saying I need to start approaching and going out more, I think "why? What has all of these other thousands of day to day interactions gotten me? Nowhere. And that's not even HOT girls! That's just normal people! If I can't even get that down, why the fuck would I start pickup?

This is my biggest dilemma and the reason I have yet to take massive action. Hopefully dome of you more experienced guys can comment on this because I feel like its a major hangup for many people.