Asked room mate for sex. not getting what exactly what shes saying to me.

I recently shifted to a new apartment with a beautiful European girl from an ad. It has been twenty days, we came to know each other slightly well. we both came to know that we are single. One night , we were smoking pot and drank a bit, talked about relationship and dating. Since my last date was not responding , she saw our whatsapp chat and asked me to replay her in a certain way. In the end I asked can we watch movie together ? then silence.... then she reprimanded me for that and told me to not think in this way. I said sorry if she felt bad about it. she continued to talk.. and after 15 mins she left angrily. Next day , we talked formally. next week she talked frankly and asked me about my last date. then again opened the topic of last week and asked me whether my date replied or not , I said no , she said forgot her. I said maybe she will replay in a month maybe. She apologies me for last week and asked me if I am angry. I said I am not angry. then she angrily said , then it's clear for you ? I sadly said yes.

I don't know what she really want..

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29.7 she asked me to make a tea, and I made for her. we talked , she told me , she would like to watch how I make one cooking dish, I showed her, she tasted it. We discussed buying gift for our parting flatmate. I told her an idea, she agreed to buy it.

30.7 Today she asked me to find something else gift. I'm bit angry. But don't know what to do.. Shall I insist the same or shall I also change my mind and find a new gift..

31.7 Bought a new gift. she rejected my many choices and finally send me to a ladies store ato buy a sunscreen spray.

1.8 In the night we talked about our problem, we both can talk with anyone except attractive member of opposite sex. So we decided, if we go to event together, I will help her, she will help me.

About tinder, I ask her do you hook on a date? She got uncomfortable and denied. She said this never happens. Only date. Talk, coffee, and that's it. She said don't ask this to any girl (I still don't believe her) we checked our tinder profiles and have suggestions.

2.8 just hi in afternoon.

3&4 : she's not at home

5.8 : she talked sympathetically. In night she said thanks for cleaning. She came out again in night at 11 to talk. In her night dress I guess. Her first 2 buttons were unbuttoned.. (now I am thinking was that an invitation?) And little boxer. She was talking with care. But since I have completely given up. I was carefully listening. We talked a bit. About our new housemate who's coming tomorrow.

6.8 : we met our new house met. She was cold with her. Mechanical. I made some atmosphere light. She was talking bit odd and cautious. I withdrawed myself after little talk.

7.8 : She's going on vacation next week full. I suspect who it could be , her friends ? what she will do ? I am bit sad. she kept convo hanging in whatsapp group. acted wiered. like disrespecting. She think every action , every word is a part of game.

8.8to18.8 : She's on vacations. So no communication.

18.8 : She's back from vacation. Came back from work, saw her and other roommate chatting. I feel bit sad and afraid when she's around. Took water and asked how was the trip and she asked how are you at same time. she said good. I did not replay.

19.8 : In evening she told , she bought corn for all of 3 , we will eat on wednesday or tom. I am sick. in evening , we discuss our houserules. She was bitchy. I did not liked her nature. later I asked about money for gift on whatsapp. I am pretty much pissed off .. I don't understand why. Maybe it's because I don't know what she thinks of me. I remember I said one sentence in exactly in same tonality in which she have scolded me on that night. She got it , looked at me in my eyes and smiled bit blush.

20.8 : No interaction. I did not see her. I send a message in grp about carnigie book. HTWFAIP. she said she heard about it, she will add it to her reading list and read it asap.

21.8 : Saw her in night, she was sick, I asked her do you have medicines. She said yes. me : Ok Silence She : but I am going to work tomorrow. she was really sick, I said don't go.. She : Probably I will bring my laptop home and work here. later , I pinged her on whatsapp that if she need paracitamol tabs, feel free to have. and gave her list of doctors in town. She : repeated same things .. she have medicines and she will work at home tom.

22.8 : Haven't seen her today. She said she will bring laptop from office and work from home, but looks like she went back to her home.

23.8 : I thought she went to her home. But she was in apartment. at 1 in night she came out to use bathroom. then came to drink water , asked how are you , i said good and u ? she said fine. better. I said ok. she said why internet is slow ? i gave reason best of my understanding. but she thought it is made up reason. she acted passive aggressively and went back saying good night.
I don't know where she spent last night. and it is making me feel sad, I really need space from that girl like for a month.

24.8 to 25.8 : She went home.

26.8 : She came, usual hru. Asked me to watch on her car. I said what I can do by watching ? she got disappointed. She was expecting me to shout if police comes. I said , don't worry I will do it. She did not refer my stuff directly as my stuff but indirectly. Later they both knocked my room and told me to wash the cloth and put it on heater it stinks next time. Women are weak. They can't do anything when they are angry. They play games to make men down by words. gestures. It looks like she is damn angry with me. and it is reflecting through her actions. I need to remember , don't judge women by her words , by her actions. Two actions are : She asked me a favor, I played a push pull game, first I refused and then agreed. I got response by indirect reference and a punishment. In the night I messaged that I didn't liked the idea of knocking on my door and telling me what to do. Both replied sorry. But they did not seemed to be sorry.

27.8 : I messaged her on whatsapp to take her money from kitchen table and one message in group.

28.8 : She replied she did not understand (shes playing dumb), She asked to pay money in advance I replied lately (deliberately) please dont take money in advance.

In evening she came from work , said smell is good. I said Pizza. You want some ? She said no. then after awkward silence. She said, I stopped smoking. I said great. without any expression. she said. I... like you. I know she meant to say "like you , I stopped smoking" but she gave me thought to think.. whether it was like you or I like you... Note : the night she rejected , I stopped smoking. and I told her the next day. It's push pull tactics. It was a pull. I guess, now it will come, a push. few hours later : A push came :D clean the kitchen.! (a message in group directed to me) Another big push : She returned from somewhere, I said Hi. Didn't replied. :D

29.8 : I saw a sheet in kitchen table in morning. We dumped the glass bottles today evening. It was all mechanical talk, about apartment. I refused to pay money for 3 months in advance. She was insisting. asking whats the problem. I told reasons. offered alternatives, said please She got emotional said everyone did it. I said I won't. I gave commitments and repercussions. I have 2 options. Either give her money since she was sad AF. or keep my stand. What is easy ? : keeping my stand. shall I go hard way ? I gets satisfied with mental masturbation and other guys could be fucking her daily for real..

30,31,1,2 : I put money on table. Received Thank you. Gave welcome..

3.9 : Hi , how are you how was your weekend. Me: it was bit relaxing. Me: And yours ? She : Yeah same. In night I did not even look at her. She wanted to notice me her bare legs.

4.9 : She is not home. in night. I don't know why I am sad, I am talking with myself where she has gone? is she found new bf ? are they fucking ? I am sad.. its 1:20 in night. I am analyzing and trying to find justification not to feel bad.

5.9 : In evening. Hi.. Hi.. Then there was silence for long time. While making tea. I spilled. I shouted shit. and started to wipe it. I said , I am trying to not make it happen , I try different combinations but it fails. She said , it always happens when I am around. I was stuck in my head. I went.

6,7 : there is whatsapp issue for cleanliness.

8.9 : we all roommate fought for cleanliness issue. It was 2 girls vs me.

9.9 : I decided to move out. she removed me as friend from fb, I removed them from everywhere and blocked them.

10.9 : She asking me to come back. its a small fight. But as i know from my past exp. As I give up she strikes back. so. no giving up. My landlord messaged me that I can leave any time, she is ok.

11.9 : Another fight on whatsapp. It's about indirect messages she give. To world it seems she is naive but she is smart at disguising. edit : She said hi, I did not replied. Next time , she did not say hi. In night I gave up. It did not happen face to face but TLDR : I agreed to all their conditions and acted like a faggot in front of bunch of women.

12.9 : No contact. But I saw, a toolbox is removed. So it's hidden warfare. I think I already have fucked her emotionally so hard that her proud ass is completely burned. I have decided to remove them from my life forever. Any favor for them would be my defeat. If I trust them , they successfully seduced me and I lost. I will never trust them.

13, 14: She's out of town.

15.9 : she came back , said hi. I did not reply, I came in front of her to get the keys from hanger, she said hi again.. I felt pretty and said hello unwillingly. But made extremely bad face while saying hello without looking at her.. I took a key. she asked are you going outside.. I got angry. did not say a word. went outside.

Well I have gave myself a month to cut them out of my life and I cant stop thinking about them. because I share house with her.

16.9 Did not replied to her hi. after some time , she was not moving so I had to ask her excuse me. 17.9 Received whats app message on group to replay to their hello because it was agreed... Wtf.. 18.9 Received message from owner's daughter (who is good friend with her) that if I won't talk with girls , I have to find new place. I told her I have right to not talk if I decide, you can't force me. 24.9 I have decided to live here with these 2 girls , I was planning to decorate my room to impress other girls and fuck them. As a part of renovating my room , I bought small wardrobe and asked house owner if I can move the old one, she was not allowing me to do that. and asked me to leave if I cant live with that big wardrobe. I said I will leave. It's been many days I am not seeing her. and it is feeling good.

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Title	Asked room mate for sex. not getting what exactly what shes saying to me.
Author	OwnedByOwn
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Comments	10
Date	July 29, 2019 7:27 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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