If so, when? I’d like to hear thoughts on this from fellow PUA’s. My theory is as follows:
When I game a girl I’m charming, funny, clever, and just a bit edgy. But if I like a girl and spend enough time with her she inevitably starts to see the wolf in sheeps clothing. Without sharing juicy details I usually end up telling these girls about how pickup works. Of course I explain “but I didn’t use any of that stuff on you baby”. The first couple of times I thought I was gonna blow myself out, but it always seems to help lock them in. I think the girl perceives a player as more of a challenge as she knows he has options. She will chase harder to keep him.
Timing is critical. You have to build a connection and get her invested before you drop this on her. After you’ve had sex a couple of times is ideal. Oh, and the downside... it will ALWAYS get brought up during arguments lol.
[–]squanchyfetuss 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
When I met my boyfriend we were both open. I was sleeping with two other guys and he flat out told me he was sleeping with one other girl. After about a month he wanted to be exclusive and that was that.
[–]AFL-NOEL 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Definition of player - “one who plays” I don’t play any games and am very straightforward about my love for the adventures and mystery of life and the fact that monogamy isn’t something I’m personally interested in (to each their own I’m rooting for everyone) if the girl then still decides to keep coming along for the ride with me, everything is all good, we were clear from the beginning. In the words of the late great Big Pun, “I’m not a player I just crush a lot.” 🤷🏽♂️😂
[–]Sparticule 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How so?
[–]dirtydeadgayjesus 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The fact that you are/were a PUA makes a girl a little insecure. I think it’s always in the back of her mind. When arguments start it’s the most obvious thing she can bring up to prove what a jerk you are. That’s my experience anyway
[–]smoothmax 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
If you're really a player you can't hide it so don't bother. It will ooze from your pores.
If it doesn't you're not a player.