Do you admit to girls you’re a player?

4 points7 commentssubmitted by dirtydeadgayjesus to r/a:t5_22vg1x

If so, when? I’d like to hear thoughts on this from fellow PUA’s. My theory is as follows:

When I game a girl I’m charming, funny, clever, and just a bit edgy. But if I like a girl and spend enough time with her she inevitably starts to see the wolf in sheeps clothing. Without sharing juicy details I usually end up telling these girls about how pickup works. Of course I explain “but I didn’t use any of that stuff on you baby”. The first couple of times I thought I was gonna blow myself out, but it always seems to help lock them in. I think the girl perceives a player as more of a challenge as she knows he has options. She will chase harder to keep him.

Timing is critical. You have to build a connection and get her invested before you drop this on her. After you’ve had sex a couple of times is ideal. Oh, and the downside... it will ALWAYS get brought up during arguments lol.