How are some guys naturally good with girls?

BPtoRP · 2015-04-04T03:31:43+00:00

Experience. Natural good looks, high status at a very young age, natural extra testosterone...they coasted on that while they gained experience.

So first girlfriend at 13, he got real attached to her and fucked up in the most cringeworthy beta way possible, she left him, he felt like utter shit. But because he was blessed with a high value, another girl threw herself at him the next week. It lasted a year this time before he fucked up again. By the time he was 16, he vaguely understood most TRP rules, he discovered controlled aggression, smooth talking, abundance mentality and their effect on girls.

In a nutshell, he just had a lot more leeway to fail and learn than you. How do you catch up? Approach. More. That's what accelerated his game and that's the most effective way to accelerate yours.

Real8inchDong · 2015-04-04T08:53:29+00:00

A combination of factors I have observed. Naturally good looking, socially savvy at a young age, a good athlete or performer, high socioeconomic status.

Brazen attitude combined with confidence, charm and humor.

Any guy with those qualities has been a massive pussy slayer.

BrutusVeritas · 2015-04-04T22:58:51+00:00

I'm a 'natural'. I have always been really tall. dark hair/eyes. Not amazingly handsome but good looking. I was an only child this lends itself to being narcissistic because everyone treated me so well and because I always got what I wanted I just assumed I'd get what I wanted. I didn't give a shit what other people thought because I was better than them.

In 6th grade through Junior high I was fat as fuck and had really bad acne, so lets just forget about those years.

Freshman year of high school, acne is gone and I'm 6ft tall, and I'm lifting weights.

Whenever there was a girl I liked I'd just go for it. There were three thousand kids in my high school so if one girl wasn't into me I'd just move on. One week I asked out 5 different girls and they all said no, that was embarrassing as fuck.

I started having sex at 15 and experienced my bouts with oneitis and heartbreak and blah blah blah very early. I remember the first two bits of advice my dad gave me when he realized I was hittin it off with girls. 'You aren't feeling love, you are feeling lust.' and 'Don't get any hoes pregnant'

I also had an insanely RP grandfather, and my father was also RP as fuck when he was single. My two best friends in high school were lower-middle class goofy lookin dudes that were non stop hookin up with hotties, I'd always just grab one chick and focus on a steady supply while they were smashin and grabbin as much as they could. I learned a lot from them as well. I was stuck up as fuck in high school when it came to girls and I wouldn't be caught with someone else's dick in those 'nasty sluts' I hadn't learned that unicorns were bullshit yet.

All of my girlfriends have called me sexist and an asshole, so have my friends. I knew that if people could love me despite these things, then god damnit I must be onto something.

The reason I'm here is because I understood all these concepts the red pill talks about but I didn't have a good way to express it in a way that didn't sound ignorant. eg all bitches is hoes. Also it really puts a sharper edge to my awareness of the concepts when they are described eloquently. I used to go completely from my gut, but now I can actually put some real analysis behind my actions. I also value keeping calm a lot more than I used to. When a girl pissed me off before I'd just verbally destroy her as hard as I could instantly, I definitely undervalued being consistently in control.

I'm not sure what else you'd like to know, but that is my experience.

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T03:28:29+00:00

"They have narcisstic attitudes and know a lot of people thats it."

There. That's your fucking answer. The 'narcisstic attitude' instills a higher level of social value, they don't need to gain the acceptance of others, it's the other way around, even when it happens to be artificially imposed. The reason? 'They know a lot of people'. Think about it. If someone who is popular (or confident enough to make the impression he is) takes an interest in knowing you, you're going to be flattered he's spending time talking to you, but if he's unpopular (or not very assertive), you're going to be less invested.

Johnny10toes · 2015-04-04T13:23:35+00:00

Social intelligence. There are many different types of intelligence. They had learned things early and developed cool.

[deleted] · 2015-04-04T13:47:43+00:00

Why are some people naturally good at math? How do some people seem to be able to dunk a basketball at age 7? How come Kenyans always seem to win at marathons?

Lady Gaga told you already, some people are just born that way.

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-04-04T03:34:07+00:00

Maybe his parents are rich.

BannedAlpha · 2015-04-04T04:39:24+00:00

Don't count out the possibility that sometimes that guy is actually genuinily nice / interesting / cool / attractive / smart / friendly. Most comments on here are representing the cognitive dissonance and sour grapes attitude towards these people. Most of it is luck- like having a more talkative family or some sisters which helps you communicate better, or this person happens to really enjoy things that just happen to be popular or cool for his time and setting.

But yes other times guys find out being an asshole is a secret key to picking up girls with low self esteem / daddy issues - who might be looking for a confident dude and mistake his blind narcism for experience driven knowledge and life confidence. That's just a first step, lots of dudes stop there and think that's enough... but if you really want to get the girl to give you that little extra she reserves only for super alpha guy - takes a little more work, so don't worry too much.

Title	How are some guys naturally good with girls?
Author	melovecoco
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Date	April 4, 2015 1:54 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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