how you fix your problem with approach anxiety

AFL-NOEL · 2019-08-24T03:59:30+00:00

Be in a good mood/vibe, have a plan (start with end in mind). What do I need to know? Who you are, do you live in the area, if not how long are you here, are you single/available, (yes) very nice we should hang out.. (connect on social or number) go for instant date, what are you doing now or today/tonight? Either hang out with them then or nice to meet we’ll set something up.. Most important have fun and don’t worry about what you’re saying, just have a plan, and go down the path towards where you want to go (escalate) All of us have been bad at everything we’ve done in life until we’ve become good, so don’t be hard on yourself and have fun with it.. Here’s some new day game from Miami Beach for added inspiration and you can hear examples of everything I just described, sending positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/kwBtqxi4VWM

FairAnalyst · 2019-08-24T14:12:38+00:00

Before even thinking about if game works or not you need to get AA eliminated or at least under control.

The only way to get it under control is attack it both from outer game and inner game at the same time and just focus on attacking AA. Its too hard to fight wars on two fronts, so if you can focus on one (results or AA) I say fight AA.

Once you get AA under control, you'll be able to open a shitton more girls that will accelerate your learning vs the guy who handicaps himself with AA and only opens 1 girl per hour and tries to learn from limited experiences. It'll also start the foundations for strong inner game that you will need in mid and endgame.

In short, keep opening and keep pushing your comfort zone. Attack AA head on.

WFoster88 · 2019-08-24T08:53:18+00:00

What do you mean it's "Not working."

Understand that overcoming AA isn't something doing a few direct approaches will fix. It takes most guys months of practice, years even. I know guys that are out daygaming every weekend, all weekend, three days straight for months and still have aa. But they do it anyway.

I used to have really bad AA and I went to bars every night. I was terrified but approached anyway. I had literal panic attacks some nights. I'd say it took my about two months going out 5 nights a week before my aa was manageable. I've also seen many guys over the years do this. So you're not unique. You can over come it but it takes a lot of time.

Please don't tell me you already tried or your'e different. Just work harder, be patient, and pay your dues.

Title	how you fix your problem with approach anxiety
Author	Sameer9305
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	August 24, 2019 3:52 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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