Go-to kino?

Twobithatter · 2019-08-27T03:30:36+00:00

One of my general rule of thumbs is; if you didn’t get a positive reaction after your kino technique, then you need to stop and go back a step. You’d be surprised how many guys aren’t sure if it’s positive and keep going just to come off as creeps

pnadlerlaw · 2019-08-27T14:58:49+00:00

Courtesy of my uncle, “Sometimes you have to go slow to go fast.”

“The longest road is the quickest way home.” Mark Twain.

I’m personally a big believer in intentionally frustratingly slow kino. But, you do what works for you. I’m just sharing a different perspective.

My go-to moves are:

The Palm Reader: I’ll lead into palm reading, and start off serious. Then, I’ll observe something about the palm lines and make a joke, like, “The mark of the Glory Hole; Apollo’s Three Way; the Milky Shake, it means you give really good hand jobs.”

(Note: two things; first, her hand is resting on yours the whole time; her palm is feeling your finger the whole time; it’s not a lot of physical contact, but it’s breaking the touch barrier nonetheless; it’s creating sexual tension; and if she has a problem with it, you just filtered her out and are moving on and not wasting your time any further).

The European: (use common sense, don’t use this on 7s and under). I’ll be diplomatic and political - think G7. I’ll treat her like Angela Merkel. As if you’re saying, “I’m giving you some respectful minimum baseline default gentlemanly courtesy of treating you as a woman ... but it’s the same exact way I would be behaving towards a woman who weighed and looked like an ogre.” Hands touching her upper arm or shoulder during moments in speech you want to communicate you sympathize with her, or are with her on an issue, or you’re just joking and don’t want her to take something too personally. Towards the end of the evening, kiss on both cheeks, a friendly double pat on the middle of the back, and off she goes.

(Note: this works great when you’re sensing a lot of ego on her end. You’re not necessarily “punishing” her; you’re just “grounding” her. You’re also confusing her and letting her simmer in her own juices, so to speak. That’s what this does. r/maybemaybemaybe It communicates, he’s clearly not afraid to touch, but maybe he just doesn’t feel like it.)

The Gentleman: when it’s raining or snowing, extend your hand and let her hold onto it as you cross the street. I’m a fan of 68”+ oversized golf umbrellas ☂ 🌂. If they still sell “the Doorman,” consider getting one. Nothing quite like having a moment under a giant umbrella. But never wrap your arm behind her to bring her close. Never escalate romantically. In your mind, you’re always “just friends” unless you sense otherwise on her end. One hand holds the umbrella for the both of you, the other hand extends to her so she can hold onto your hand. Alternatively, you can both help in holding up the umbrella, again, like friends.

(Note: keep it ambiguous and confusing. When she goes back to think about it, or talk to her friends or family about it, make it very very grey for her. Is he interested in me? Was this a moment or am I just reading into it? Maybe I am wanting it to be more than what it actually was? Fuck, now I’m wondering if he’s interested in me and having the same thoughts I am.)

That’s my general mentality. Break the touch barrier, no big deal, because it isn’t. You break the touch barrier with everyone. Attractive, unattractive, male, female, friend, acquaintance, stranger. It doesn’t matter. So, in your eyes, where does she stand? She doesn’t know. That’s the whole point. Enjoy your time in the hot tub of mixed signals and ambiguity.

Important: live outside of your mind and ego. You have to be hyper aware of how she’s feeling. If she’s overly confident, you need to ground her. If she’s genuinely shy, insecure, and looking for reassurance, then you need to give her some validation and a sense of security (if you’re aiming for a relationship).

So, if she starts giving you signals and starts expressing interest in you:

If she’s the former, be a gentleman, accept what she’s offering to you, and then just let her sit there in a position where she’s given up power and you’re maybe just neutral or just going with it, but not necessarily feeling it and reciprocating. Neither punishing nor rewarding. The goal is to ground her.

If she’s the latter, express your feelings physically. If the goal is kino, then what more of an opportunity could you ask for than a girl who is looking to feel good and positive from your reassurance of your interest in her? Reassure her through touch and physicality. It still communicates your interest towards her, you guys are getting more physically intimate, and it has her feeling good and positive about receiving and wanting your physical touch.

Title	Go-to kino?
Author	TeenPussySlayer69
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 27, 2019 2:07 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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