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How To INSTANTLY Know How Much a Girl Likes You (From a Scale Of 1-10)

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August 30, 2019

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Title	How To INSTANTLY Know How Much a Girl Likes You (From a Scale Of 1-10)
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	242
Comments	24
Date	August 30, 2019 7:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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[–]sancord 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]kumeno 43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago* (7 children) | Copy Link

Alright well let me make a little list here using his scales:

0-4(Little to no attraction) •Depending on the scenario, she’ll most likely just be your friend, and if not that then she’s just gonna live her life. 5-6(Start of attraction) •Conversations may start to get a little more in depth, and may start to be more frequent and longer (she’s trying to get to know you better!). She may become more touchy, and want to hang out more. In this stage she may also be more curious if you feel the same and want you to invite her places and start conversations. If she ever stops replying/starting conversations first you could’ve been too forward (I know how confusing), she might’ve also just lost interest, and that happens so don’t get discouraged!oh! And also how could I forget about mentioning flirting! You may see the conversations becoming more flirty or even suggestive lol I mean it all depends on how forward the chic is. Oh yeah, expect some compliments too, but y’know friends give compliments to each other too, G’luck. 6-7(Development of acceptance of attraction) •Not much would of changed from the last stage, but conversations will last longer, and y’know she’ll want to hang out. Also you may hear more cute comments and compliments. I’m not too certain about the whole ‘playing games/testing’ part he mentioned, but I do know that she might play around with her words to try to make you chase her just so she can be certain you feel the same. Don’t rush into anything unless there are clear signs that she wants to progress more! (: (I’m just gonna skip to 9-10) •When you’ve finally made it to this stage, and you both have confirmed your true feelings ( (; ), there is going to be a lot of uncertainty. It may be due to a fear of commitment, simple insecurities(still unsure you don’t feel the same), or y’know maybe she’s just scared of how new it may all be, just having someone around who unconditionally loves them! (How cute though right?)

Sidenote: All of these are from my perspective, so I hope it helps! (: Also if you have any questions, I’ll answer them!

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[–]kumeno 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ha I’m not sure if there’s a subreddit, and I’m also not sure if anything I’m going to list will help, but I’ll try: 1.) She may be overwhelmed, and might feel like she’s being forced into it. (Lemme explain) In my experience, I’ve really liked certain people before, but as soon as they want to just constantly be around me, I’ll feel like I have to just go with it, even though I’m uncomfortable with moving too fast. I won’t voice my opinion or any concern and just let them have their way with it until I eventually just leave instead of working out the problems. So she likes you, but she feels like she’s just taking apart in your fantasy relationship and not hers. 2.) Maybe she’s interested in someone else, which is okay if your relationship wasn’t serious but she should’ve been upfront with it. 3.) COMMITMENT is terrifying for some people, some more than others. It means that you’re stuck with the same person for quite possibly the rest of your life, and all sorts of problems could surface, or the relationship could fall apart. If she’s very insecure about commitment, it’s probably because she’s afraid of heartbreak, losing the freedom of being single, or just the labels of a serious relationship. 4.) She’s not receiving the same attention she was in the beginning of your friendship/interactions. Maybe she liked shy guys and then you got too comfortable. Maybe she enjoyed the chase of trying to get you when you played hard to get. Or maybe you just weren’t as she imagined.

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