After a few months of mutual sexual tension leading to great sex one night, she remembers hardly anything? Or did she know exactly what she was doing?

Redgiant54 · 2019-08-30T20:29:15+00:00

Yeah she definitly wants to put responsibility on you. She knows what she did... this is her slut shield talking. Woman have it harder for being judged for sex in our society. Had it happen to me too, confused the shit out of me. She just wants to say; "i didnt mean for it to happen, it just happened"

caesarfecit · 2019-08-30T21:08:36+00:00

Girls feel easy when they sleep with their guy friends, even and especially if they wanted it.

There's several reasons why:

She doesn't want to jeopardize the emotional intimacy you already have. That actually matters to many girls as much or more than sex. Part of the problem with sexual relationships is that when they go bad, the relationship itself usually crumbles.
She doesn't want to become your booty call (the female Friend Zone).
She can't have sex with a guy she knows well without wanting to date him. When girls want casual sex, they usually go for exes or new guys.
A lot of guys get weird if they find out a girl slept with one of their guy friends and he's still around. She can't exactly tell her new bf that he's like a brother with a straight face.
She had or has feelings for you and is repressing/denying them for a number of different reasons.
You're in the Friend Zone and you just got lucky. She'll likely feel really confused and awkward about that, especially if she liked it.

Your move OP is to be as cool as an icicle. The more you bring it up, the more you make it seem like it was a big deal to you and that shows neediness. Let her sort out her feelings and watch yourself like a goddamn hawk for one-itis.

She wouldn't have slept with you if she didn't find you attractive on some level, that's just how it is. What's up with her is either her ego or her feelings about you are all messed up. Your move is to be as non-needy as possible. Maybe even give some space, largely to protect yourself from one-itis.

xxslaying · 2019-08-30T23:07:11+00:00

Tell her, if you don’t remember anything, want me to give you round two

Title	After a few months of mutual sexual tension leading to great sex one night, she remembers hardly anything? Or did she know exactly what she was doing?
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Date	August 30, 2019 7:55 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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