Is it to needy to ask a girl “what went wrong”? Or something along those lines

getyourlifeplease · 2019-09-04T00:39:11+00:00

anyways long story short i told her a couple weeks later that we should meet again,

How did it go from you 2 going on a few dates, to then not seeing each other for a couple weeks?

TaeKwonPiccolo · 2019-09-04T01:24:11+00:00

You're not the only one she is dating. Keep approaching and get more numbers and dates. This is why it's important to have an abundance of women. Women will flake on a guy when she finds someone she feels is better.

LoveNotH86 · 2019-09-04T02:08:48+00:00

I don’t think it’s needy to want to know but it’s definitely a waste of your time. When someone cuts you off believe them and move on.

TheLoveGuardian · 2019-09-04T04:10:47+00:00

The moment you said “a couple weeks later” is where you went wrong. Should’ve set something up days later

2019-09-04T04:52:54+00:00

move on, she isn’t interested. asking her “what she went wrong” is not only needy, it’s unnecessary. you having the urge to ask “what went wrong” is indication that you presented other needy tendencies earlier on which is why she’s currently rejecting you. so, in a sense, you get an answer to “what went wrong” without degrading yourself by asking her that.

find ways to get better and understand that this is simply a learning experience to be better the next time. a way to combat neediness is to be able to be happy with yourself. work on that first and the rest will follow suit. good luck.

Snarkwit · 2019-09-05T09:59:36+00:00

You waited a couple weeks to ask her out again. Thats what went wrong. Period. The end. You gave her time to forget how great that first date was and now its too late to rekindle.

Move on. Leave her alone.

Next time you connect with someone like that plan a date for about 3 or 4 days afterwards, have a plan. You plan it. You ask her out to a specific place and pick her up at a specific time. Dont ask her out and then ask what she wants to do. You asked her out, she didnt ask you. If you ask, it is your responsibility to plan the date. And thats also attractive as hell when a guy acts like a man and says "will you go with me this day at this time to this place because id like to see you again" instead of "we should hang out again". Ya dig?

Title	Is it to needy to ask a girl “what went wrong”? Or something along those lines
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Date	September 4, 2019 12:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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