So this gal 18 and me 23 have been dating for a few months now. I have not made her my girlfriend or told her i love her. But damn i do a lot of great dates for her and she's very very receptive to me. We have not have sex but I have gone down on her. She's super into me when we're out. Here's the problem fellas. So after a date of wine painting, her meeting my mother for the first time and I making dinner for her she told me she was gonna go to California. She had mentioned it before a few dates ago (we've had 9). So i said well I'll see you then babygirl. I pretty much think that was the last time I felt everything was okay.

So the week she was gonna leave she snapchat me saying if she wanted to see me before she goes to California on Thursday. I said sure. then that very night she said if she just wanted to meet right now. I said sure. Just as I was getting ready she blew me off and said she couldn't go out anymore and Thursday too. I GOT VERY ANNOYED, but i did not say anything just moved on and did my other priorities. She send selfies to me the next day about her new bangs on her hair and she kinda looks like my ma lol. She brings up hanging out before she leaves and i say i cant i'm too busy. (that was a lie i just didn't want to get blown off again). So she leaves and she sends selfies again during her trip and i compliment her. Then she sends me a stupid text about her needing for me to feed her baby ducks cause shes in California and her neighbor cant do it rn. It reminded me of her telling me one night to help her find a stray dog she found a new home and i took it from her and found it a foster. So she got a weak spot from me since we both love animals. I think this was the point where i thought she was using me. So i said okay i'll go feed your ducks. Turns out her father was at her fucking house and her ducks weren't alone Her dad says shes in California with her mother and brother. I feel lied to cause she said her ducks were alone and that she was going to California alone.

Feeling pissed i dont say anything else and leave and then the next day she sends a selfie of her on a bikini. I feel weird so i respond the next day and compliment her. I waited a day when she came back to Las Vegas and I asked her if she wanted to talk on the phone like i usually do when i ask her out. No response. I never over text, i never text more than once a week, i never text ever first at all. This is how i got her in the first place by not over texting or acting needy. WTF do i do? She's never done this to me except once in the beginning of me meeting her? I dont think shes cheating and i dont think its me not commiting to her in a relationship.