Starting to get the hang of it

omega_constant · 2019-09-20T06:14:55+00:00

Great post. Like anything, it all comes down to the basics. Just do solid work on the basics and the rest will take care of itself.

A note for guys (or gals) out there with different body shapes: getting in shape doesn't necessarily mean being an underwear model. It means being your best self. Take care of your body (get nutrition and some kind of regular exercise) and you will feel healthy and your constitution will glow from the inside. That is what people will see and respond to. When you are emanating a positive energy because you are actually feeling good, people will be attracted to you.

Also, as far as getting glances from people, this isn't just about the looks you were born with. This is about how you present yourself overall. Minimize the features that don't contribute to your presentation and emphasize those that do. Whether you're rocking a half-shaved head with long highlights or something more traditional, you can always take the hand you've been dealt and improve it. The chiseled Greek-god face may get the most looks but not everyone is into the same thing. You do you, and the people out there who dig someone like you are going to notice you. "Yeah, but 90% of women don't give me a second look." So what? Are you wanting to sleep with 90% of women? Or are you wanting to meet someone who actually likes you for you and wants to hang out with you? Ignore the statistics and dance to your own groove.

Dorean04 · 2019-09-20T03:58:48+00:00

If you don't mind could you over a few choosing signals to look for?

envan · 2019-09-20T04:51:32+00:00

How old are you?

I'm 19, but i still struggle in trying not to be immature. I mean, in some situations, I can have a normal conversation, but sometimes I just try being funny to "approach", tho it doesn't work the way I wish.. still, I actually can't control 100% how I act in front of people, specially when it's about people i find attractive.. do you have any tips?

throwawayzibil · 2019-09-20T07:30:31+00:00

Tips for dressing and style?

dirttaylor · 2019-09-20T01:08:06+00:00

Check. Check. Check. Check...Get after it my man!!!

ArcturasBCWA · 2019-09-20T04:12:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing! Inspiring when hard work pays off

Paltenburg · 2019-09-20T08:52:21+00:00

Alright, good for you!

heavyboofpack · 2019-09-19T23:40:58+00:00

Love reading these lol I can see how they help

Title	Starting to get the hang of it
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	127
Comments	22
Date	September 19, 2019 10:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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