I can't tell if she's still interested or not. To me it's 50/50 what do you think?

FaceInTheSpace · 2019-09-20T05:53:00+00:00

Honestly, looks like a 'friend' person is her main option and you being 'safe' option.

I know that feel bruh

QuiteTheBrianD · 2019-09-20T06:10:04+00:00

Don’t hit her up again unless she does first. You asked for a definite date and reschedule and nothing was set in stone with her, so most likely not interested.

If you refrain and leave it (don’t respond!) and she ends up hitting you back in a week or two, you have all the power.

Undercovermother19 · 2019-09-20T06:00:10+00:00

I would suggest that you not text her and wait until to next week to hear back from her. She seems to be on the fence about you hence has very low interest.

shits_tight · 2019-09-20T05:01:16+00:00

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ProudRamboBSNS · 2019-09-20T08:46:37+00:00

Nah, that's low interest. Not gonna happen.

mydogfartzwithz · 2019-09-20T09:11:54+00:00

ur never gonna hear from her again unless she’s desperate. lol

leoconsumi · 2019-09-20T09:20:40+00:00

it seems like a no to me chief

2019-09-20T12:55:39+00:00

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Judkiewicz · 2019-09-20T06:13:12+00:00

Texting should be for setting dates, in this case you did. Be direct and specific next time you ask any girl.

tanjiasama · 2019-09-20T10:19:42+00:00

Dude follow the 3 to 2 rule Let her invest in the convo more than you For each 3 messages she sends send 2 Ur messages shld be short and open for discussion so she wnt have an excuse to end the convo If she didnt invest its not going anywhere move on

RedIntrovert · 2019-09-20T10:36:50+00:00

If you offer a date and she declines and DOESN’T offer an alternate date, she’s not interested.

Move on.

2019-09-20T12:47:38+00:00

Despite you having OS with her previously, the text messages suggest she has moved on. If she responds with another deflection on your date question, just move on.

rythmryders · 2019-09-20T14:06:07+00:00

I think you should own your intentions with her. It will save you a bunch of time. If she’s not clear with you after you’ve been clear with her, move on. Respect your time.

SgtMajMythic · 2019-09-20T16:21:36+00:00

Here’s the thing. Just because a girl isn’t interested now doesn’t mean you can’t make her interested over time. I have had several situations where a girl is initially not into me and then we talk for a while and eventually she becomes more interested. Just don’t be needy.

2019-09-21T02:42:21+00:00

She is not

realfrkshww · 2019-09-20T07:38:13+00:00

Let me take some time to appreciate the fact, that you take 10 and more minutes to answer. That’s right, you’re not being needy and thirsty. But...

You shouldn’t ask her out on specific days. Instead, ask when she’s free. If you are free at that day, ask her out. That’s basically an advice. Now to the question.

I think, you are really her safe-boy, and, as somebody said above, that “friend” is, probably, your replacement. To get out of this situation, you can either: • Stop messaging her at all. If she’s following you on social media, let her know that you’re having a good time even without her. That’s also a good way to get out of friendzone. She might message you in a week or two. Now, no matter if you listen to this option, move to the next one: • Leave. Just leave. Move on. No one is unique enough to stalk them, live them and chase them.

Edit: typo

Nstnt77 · 2019-09-20T14:51:40+00:00

You’re game shows too much neediness of her attention. However, don’t hit her and don’t care about if she doesn’t reply you either. If you mean a lot to her she’ll definitely fix a date

Title	I can't tell if she's still interested or not. To me it's 50/50 what do you think?
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Upvotes	25
Comments	29
Date	September 20, 2019 4:58 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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