For the past 4 months, my next door neighbor has been wanting to have sex with me fairly regularly. The first few times I said no but eventually I broke and caved in. Her body is about an 8-9 and face about 6. She is promiscuous which turns me off but also gives me a break. At first, this was hot. Now it is sucking my energy. She is like an energy vampire. I dont sleep well when she is here, and she can be difficult due to her excessive drinking. I resolve myself to stop by I cant say no when she comes by. I am feeling less secure in my living space as every night it is possible for her to knock on my door drunk, ready to go. This may sound like a good problem to some but it isn't for me. The phrase, "be careful what you wish for" comes to mind. For awhile I was out dating, which seemed to spread my attention but now I dont really have lots of time to date, and I'm just getting out of a divorce so I need time to heal.

This is mainly an ask for help/insight/wisdom from those in this forum who may help me with setting boundaries. Thanks for all your comments-I like this community.