Do any of you guys kick girls out if she being heavy on the lmr?

omega_constant · 2019-09-23T20:37:51+00:00

Handle women delicately , especially in this circumstance. If she feels used or hurt, she can go out and say any number of things to put you in a bad position, just because you hurt her feelings.

Some girls just need more time. Also, you might just need to make her feel more comfortable, and just be blunt about what you want (if you weren't blunt before).

And then of course, some girls just change their minds. Either you waited too long, or you said some dumb shit , or she's just not with it anymore. It's all good. Just be cool about it and don't make her feel like shit, or else.

2019-09-23T20:28:57+00:00

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2019-09-23T21:04:09+00:00

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2019-09-23T20:15:20+00:00

I'm not sure the answer, but you may want to reward the last sentence of the question, it's a bit unclear what you mean

SithLordJediMaster · 2019-09-23T20:16:58+00:00

What's lmr?

smoothmax · 2019-09-23T22:28:08+00:00

James Tusk did a video on exactly this a couple of weeks ago. Highly recommended.

https://youtu.be/mHhukU2AYjM

recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-24T03:35:40+00:00

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I kno theirs alot of options here on overcoming last minute resistance but what if she won't budge?

LMR isn't something that one "budges." And if you're in this frame of mind, it's completely guaranteed to dry up her vagina.

The whole reason that LMR usually happens is:

The girl feels like she's not getting to express her own desire
The girl feels overwhelmed by a guy going full court press on her
The girl feels the weight of expectations from a guy who seems to be unconcerned with what she wants
She just wants some breathing room before she goes the rest of the way.

If the response to this is the guy being visibly disappointed, petty, immature, etc., then that only justifies to her that she was right to pause and should not have sex.

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I was asking because I thought of doing it myself but said it would be too mean.

Kicking her out =

Lowering chances that sex will happen.
And word will spread that you did it; word of mouth can really grease the wheels if a girl was happy about the time you showed her, and the opposite is true as well. A girl who had a really bad time can close doors for you.

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Do any of you guys kick girls out if she being heavy on the lmr?

If you're doing it right, LMR won't be heavy. It'll be a brief pause in the action. It's an overreaction to her call for a time-out, that turns "just wait a minute," into a "no."

I've never had to kick anyone out. Girls have said things like, "We're not having sex," and if you're able to let go of your expectations and just have a good time either way, she'll relax and you end up having sex most of the time anyway, if not that night, then soon after.

And it's important that your approach leaves room for her to be expressing her own desire and opportunity to spearhead the escalation at least some of the time. If she isn't meeting you half-way and it's just you pushing everything unilaterally, she'll be more likely to show LMR. But it isn't a problem you should ever see if you're leaving room for the girl to take action.

Title	Do any of you guys kick girls out if she being heavy on the lmr?
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Date	September 23, 2019 8:09 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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