Does anyone not use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?

GeeseCTM · 2019-10-02T21:53:36+00:00

75% of my successes all came from being alone during the day lol. No wings. Sidewalks, coffeeshops, bookstores, grocery stores, festivals, working as a server at brunch lol .. you name it. And I've had a LOT.

Bars are where I go to drink and sing. Yea sure I get girls from bars too but that's not my priority.

You can do it. It may take adjustment. You have less time in some circumstances and need to just go direct (Streets) and other situations it's better to use more finesse like grocery stores or book stores or whatever.

Key into their energy and just be a tiny bit higher. Don't go in all night clubby. They lead them where you want them to be.

Direct (street): "Hell no!"... (walking next to her in a straight line - EVEN IF she veers slightly away when you walk with her KEEP A STRAIGHT LINE. Do not follow ... "I just saw you passing me by and if I didn't come try and get to meet you I'd be kicking myself in the ass for the rest of the day."

Finesse: Grocery Store... Line I've used before approaching a girl and yes we did end I naked and naughty later: "So my mom wants me to eat more spinach. Which one do you think is the best one?" Almost being serious but also with A SLIGHT attitude that I'm full of shit. She knows I am anyway.

Anyway I'm not going to give a full course lol. I may however I'm my channel do a talk soon on this topic. I'll post a link below.

One thing I would AVOID are the YouTube videos by so-called coaches doing infield videos. They will most likely make you WORSE than you are now. Most of the videos I've seen by those guys are all dancing monkey stuff and it's pretty easy to tell him experience that those guys will get no where with the women they are claiming they have success with in those videos.

And what I mean by that, is learning bad skills/behaviors and then going back later and having to unlearn them or never unlearning them is a problem I see with most of my clients. The best thing is can do is learn the right way the first time. That's very hard these days because the pua community entered what myself and many of the best guys i only, as a sort of Dark Ages a few years back where everybody and their momma (as Jesse Lee Peterson likes to say) started trying to be a coach and MOST are just BAD.

So beware.

Make sure you get your material from the right sources. Hint: Anyone with Daygame in their title or something similar is just TERRIBLE. There's a few of those out there. Daygame this or JonnyDaygamePUA that. I can't remember their names but I just know that the stuff I've seen is complete nonsense.

So I guess I gave you a little bit of good and bad.

Oh wait, one more thing. As far as being social goes. I mean, do you really want to be social or do you want to just get women? Because honestly, the best guys I know, I know for a fact that you actually don't have to create a Social circle in order to get women during the daytime. You really don't.

Are you naturally a social guy and you like having a lot of friends? Or, like me, do you just want to have the friends that you have and you meet cool friends when you meet them, naturally, and as far as meeting women goes one has nothing to do with the other? I'm just saying, I'm not sure what type of person you are, but I'm honestly not interested in having a gigantic Social circle and putting in the work, time and effort.. I know that there are people that like to do that and that's cool.

But trust me.. Building a Social circle is definitely not necessary to being successful with women during the daytime, and as a matter of fact may not offer much of a benefit unless you actually love being a social person. Just my 2 sense.

And like I said maybe I'll be posting a podcast on this topic on my channel soon..

If you want to check it out it's here: Creating The Man

Good luck on your journey... Cheers

rich_god · 2019-10-02T21:40:01+00:00

I haven’t been to a club, a bar, used a dating app or cold approached a girl in a neutral area (like streets, restaurants, shops, parc...) in about a year.

I have about 1 or two new girls interested a week (usually pretty high quality ones in my opinion, both physically and emotionally), which add up to as ma y LTRs as I can handle (everyone know about all the others).

Good social circle, a fulfilling and happy life and solid leadership are more effective in my experience than the usual pickup strategies. That said, being good at approaching in any situation is always a useful skill.

PapiLion81 · 2019-10-03T01:29:06+00:00

I say it over and over but no one listens or joins me.....yoga. Specifically "yoga sculpt" classes where there is more HIIT integrated in and the use of weights. I'm usually one or two dudes in this type of hot yoga class with the rest being women. And before anyone asks how I approach these students during/after class...I don't often. But it's those hot yoga teachers that get to know you over time when you keep showing up. You develop a rapport with them. The eye candy in these classes is phenomenal.

shemparider · 2019-10-03T03:21:12+00:00

Meditation centers, Zen or Tibetan doesn't matter they welcome new people everyone is friendly and the people are normal and stable. Plus a little meditation is good for you Namaste

Title	Does anyone not use bars/clubs as their main method of meeting girls and still yield acceptable results?
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Date	October 2, 2019 9:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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