(M21) Struggling with virginity-induced depression, but wanting to approach girls

Pretty-Robot · 2019-10-15T04:09:09+00:00

Don’t you have any single female friends? Take one of them out, buy them some drinks, explain your virginity predicament, and ask them if they wouldn’t mind helping you with your situation...you’d be surprised how effective the direct route is.

Mayritztheman · 2019-10-15T04:50:46+00:00

If it’s not too big of a step for you-try joining a local salsa class. Helped me a lot with my social anxiety :)

This allows you to more organically start talking to girls. From there you can move up to cold-approach (maybe you’ll never need to)

2019-10-15T06:03:09+00:00

I'm much older and dealing with this. I got some contacts with a hot yoga class.

You see people a bunch of times and it makes it much easier too. A few women also smiled, and I talked to one.

Good luck to you.

getyourlifeplease · 2019-10-15T07:18:53+00:00

So main question is - why focus on meeting girls? I applaud you recognizing your mental health needing attention and getting help - that takes a lot! But you admit you dont have friends...so why not focus on 1) getting and feeling better, then 2) making friends (through clubs, hobbies you enjoy, volunteering for something you enjoy, etc). Learning to make an keep friends - male and female - helps you understand the social dynamics of relationships...THEN jump into trying to meet and pickup girls.

Title	(M21) Struggling with virginity-induced depression, but wanting to approach girls
Author	uncontrollable_cbr
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	October 15, 2019 3:45 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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