When I’m talking to women at the club or a bar or a party, I have to lip read them as I can’t hear them properly if I focus on their eyes and I want to listen to every word they say. It seems to be a problem as it seems like they may think I’m not actually listening to them or I’m looking at their breasts or they think I’m about to kiss them.

What do I do? Should I ask them to speak loudly and clearly? It seems rude to me