Sexualising the conversation.

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-10-31T22:50:32+00:00

Sexual innuendo, learn it.

For example, when my GF and I were still early dating phase she decided to decorate one of her room's red. I joked and said "that sounds like a BDSM room, dont tell me you're into that"

She smirked and we started talking about her sexual fantasies. Next day we were in that room testing it out.

Other things could be using stuff she says as "conversational props".

For example I was talking to this girl and I wasnt that interested and she told me she worked at Hooters. I took her hand, stood her up and looked her up and down and told her "nah no way, you're a B cup at best".

Thing is you cant be afraid, if you are you wont say it with confidence. You just have to throw out whatever is on your mind, see how she reacts and go with it.

Atriev · 2019-10-31T22:35:08+00:00

First I use words such as “danger, trouble, feisty.” And as the girl reciprocates, I go to:

Eye brow raise when either of us says something that might be misinterpreted.

Or

Biting my own lips.

Those are my two favorites. I throw those in before my physical escalations.

(Obviously you don’t have to go in this order.)

Have fun tonight!

smoothmax · 2019-10-31T23:02:05+00:00

The sexual vibe has to come first. Imagine if you're not really feeling attraction strongly in your body, but you come out with sexual innuendo ... incongruent and creepy.

Sex talk is an optional reinforcement of your vibe not a substitute.

Some guys recommend adding it into conversation if the image you project is too milktoast and if girls have the impression you're not a player. On the other hand if you come off as a fuckboi/player you can tell innocent stories about playing with your dog to tone it down.

There is a whole spectrum of body language you can employ to project a congruent image, such as eye contact, triangular gazing, raising an eyebrow, tilting your head, slouching in just the right way, standing "boyfriend close", etc. etc. Probably Hank Moody clips on youtube are good materials for this but you will probably do it naturally if you can get in your body and get out of your head.

bemore_ · 2019-11-01T04:47:07+00:00

Try to bring up what you like

InnerMonologist · 2019-11-01T06:08:41+00:00

I'm not a pro but this works for me. I usually compliment them on a trait. Ex. "I like your hair." "Awww thanks!" "But I think it'd look better in my hands ;)" "Cute dress." "Awww thanks!" "But I think it'd look better crumpled up at the foot of my bed in the morning ;)"

Title	Sexualising the conversation.
Author	JadowArcadia
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 31, 2019 10:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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