Tips on increasing exposure

red-tinted · 2015-04-29T23:05:37+00:00

Get a hobby.

Shoutnshorty · 2015-04-30T03:02:04+00:00

I've finally taken up on meetup.com groups and its really helped my anxiety approaching people and its only been a week. Now I havnt met a lot of laddies yet (only a couple) but just creating a network helps your chances man

DAZTR411 · 2015-04-29T23:15:55+00:00

I guess you're kinda in the same place I am with being just slightly too young to go into clubs and bars. The way I see it, the only thing those places facilitate is a more acceptable (or more excusable) method of sexual interaction, they don't have some special breed of woman in them, nor are they worth more than the next random bimbo you pass in the street, it's just presentation.

With that in mind, you should keep focusing your energy into yourself, sure, if you see someone cute, go talk to them, escalate, close etc, but your time and energy is best spent making sure the best possible version of you is what walks through those doors whenever you become of age.

leftajar · 2015-04-30T07:00:38+00:00

Partnered dancing.

cmiovino · 2015-04-30T16:00:09+00:00

Daygame. I mean, if you have access to a city. I'd recommend college campuses, but classes/finals are winding down (as you know).

Meetup.com is good from what I've seen.

Personally, bars and clubs aren't the greatest, so don't just be waiting to turn 21 and thinking you're going to have tons more options.. I mean, they do present an area where you can interact with many women, but most of the time they're bottom of the barrel. Those ones and even the other 'better' ones with level headed shoulders are all putting themselves up on a pedestal.

It's like you're there, shooting the shit with your friends, you see a girl all dressed up pretty, even though she's a 6/10. You approach, just because. She shoots you down because she's in abudance mode with 10 guys hitting on her and she thinks she's the shit. Meanwhile, you might be working out 4 times a week, eating healthy, an absolutely tiger in bed, and have $1 mil. She just thinks you're another idiot. I find even with confidence, TRP mindsets, etc.. it's still an uphill battle in these venues as compared to doing the same thing on the street during the day.

Also try malls, grocery stores, Target, Whole Foods, etc... all great places, no age limit.

Title	Tips on increasing exposure
Author	noobulater
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	April 29, 2015 10:58 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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