How can I (23M) improve how I talk to girls outside a club?

friedpaco · 2019-11-23T16:07:16+00:00

I opened a girl at a bar last week by literally saying “I had tacos for dinner”. It’s not about what you say, it’s how confident you are when you say it.

kostasbras · 2019-11-23T19:05:53+00:00

So you consider it normal to ask them the same questions as a reporter would ask and pretend to be curious?

It's not about what you say, but the way you say it. (85% of the interaction is based on non-verbal communication)

If you want to improve at something, that should be your eye contact, the body language and the vocal projection.

You can really discuss everything with women, as long as you convey it with a funny and confident way.

2019-11-23T18:21:12+00:00

Agreed. Believe in yourself and they will follow you. For example: I see a girl with a short ass dress on and has an incredible body. Instead of saying the obvious I say where is the rest of your dress? Usually that gets a laugh and you go from there. Be confident and value yourself. They are just humans.

grrinchas · 2019-11-23T23:13:08+00:00

Learn to feel the music.

Go in a middle of dance floor. Close your eyes. Focus on your breathing. Make it calm. Then clear your head of any thoughts. Don’t think. Focus on the ears. Feel your ear drums beating. Focus on one particular beat. Anticipate the next same beat. Once you have this start to move the finger, then arm, then your body to that beat (synchronise). When you are actually feeling the music and dancing. You don’t need any words to approach a girl in a club.

If it’s at bar then shout to her ear “are you having fun?” With the same vibe you just created

Title	How can I (23M) improve how I talk to girls outside a club?
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Date	November 23, 2019 3:58 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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