What does it mean to be light and playful ?

smoothmax · 2019-11-29T02:04:20+00:00

I made a breakthrough when I started to listen to women with much more attention, and (paradoxically) trying less hard to think of something lighthearted and funny to say.

When you relax and listen to someone, it actually frees your mind and based on what she says you are more likely to think of something light and playful to say. The jokes come bubbling up unbidden. And if they don't, that's ALSO good because you can listen to her with a relaxed, pleasant smile or quizzical smirk on your face which is just as light and playful as any zinger you could think up.

The women you have to watch out for are the serious ones who try to always get YOU to talk and who avoid speaking emotionally about their own hopes and dreams. I haven't yet mastered how to resist getting sucked into talking about myself and how to spark them a little bit more into speaking at least 1/2 the time ... giving me the chance to listen to them and react playfully.

rydendm · 2019-11-28T21:40:12+00:00

stuff like limit serious life questions/topics. No heavy , deep questions unless it can be lead to funny stuff

being funny and messing around without giving straight answers immediately.

Title	What does it mean to be light and playful ?
Author	Fattybomba123
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	November 28, 2019 9:33 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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