How to improve texting game?

aubounty · 2019-12-04T22:10:14+00:00

So I'll tell you a couple of things I've learned. Take them to heart, they should be useful to you.

Remove all question marks
Your reply times should look like this.- Don't talk during the hours of 9:50 ish am and 4:50pm.- When talking outside of those hours, take 7-15 minutes to respond to every message the person sends. Do this for 4-6 messages before waiting until the next day, or after the day is over.
Don't respond to every message. If the last message you receieve from a girl you can ignore because it doesn't require a direct answer, consider doing it. This allows you to start the conversation the next time easily, and you don't have to double message. Also, if you leave the last message they send unseen - you can respond like 2 days later by first reacting to the message (only thumbs up or down) and then sending your own message. On tinder, this strategy is great because they get two notifications but it isn't needy (you can actually like a message on tinder if you didnt know).
Don't send long messages, you want to match their length or do less.
Don't do emojis. Memes are okay, sparingly - and if they relate back to an inside joke you have with the girl.
Tinder is based on looks. You can get laid out of it though if in your pictures you appear to be a 6+ that has congruency across photos and a good bio. If you want to get any good results though, research how tinder ELO works and buy tinder gold. Not buying tinder gold but trying to use tinder is pretty stupid.
Qualifying and emotional spiking are good. Research them heavily. Usually on instagram what I do is: Reply to her story with an emotional spike > like message dont respond > message 2 days later with qualifier > reply according to times i told you earlier with an activity qualifier > ask her to hang, with some fillers in there.
Use Instagram. Please for the love of god don't be one of those guys that doesn't make one. It is THE BEST platform to message on outside of snapchat. Take it seriously. Don't be one of the people that say it's useless and cold approach is the real man's way. It's the same as owning a business in the current year without taking social media seriously. Can you do that? Yes. Is it stupid? Yes. I would suggest modelling a profile like mazeenriquez in terms of photos. Go out for photos with a mate who has a camera, shout them a pizza in return for a couple of photos in different clothes and spots in the city. Follower counts don't matter, just dont be following more people than follow you. You can start with 20 friends around your area, that is fine.

I have more, but those are a good start. Good luck.

KATsapuss · 2019-12-04T03:12:44+00:00

I'd say relax a bit with the texting. Don't do it too much, don't appear over eager. Don't start getting into small talk. Not "hey how are you".... Fuck that make it funny and light-hearted.

Frankly texting is going to screw things up for you more than it's going to help imo. You succeed in person.

I'm not a big fan of the apps but the best way there is to just try to make some funny comments and seal a first date. She'll likely want some more info before meeting in person so give her some details while keeping it light. Just remember small talk is poison whether in person, texting, or on the apps. Especially on the apps say you start going.... "I'm (x) years old, I do (y) for a living, I like to fish"..... Mad boring which sounds obvious

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-04T03:55:48+00:00

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Title	How to improve texting game?
Author	Eclecto1
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	December 4, 2019 3:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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