failed to seduce an older girl

garlopf · 2019-12-08T13:28:26+00:00

When you are 35, 21 year olds are like children. To stand a chance, you need to find someone who is into that, or you have to show you are mature for your age to a point where you are still relevant. Not an easy feat.

LilMissZee · 2019-12-08T14:27:03+00:00

You’re a 21 year old child. I’m 32 and anyone younger than 28 I see as a child. It’s not a surprise that she has no interest in you. You need to rather look at people your own age

dante_srs · 2019-12-08T18:31:15+00:00

I’m talking to a 38 year old girl right now. I’m 23. But I also know that I just act more mature than my age, especially in front of older chick. Most of the time, all they need is someone who pays attention to them, listens, compliments. Not going overboard of course. Being said that, older girls also appreciate a little bolder side, that’s willing to take risk, put her on edge. But tread that line carefully, be playful in private moments rather than insulting her. And keep her reputation in mind in public, she will definitely appreciate that. At last, don’t take any advice too literally, every girl is different so you need to tweak yourself accordingly.

2019-12-08T22:06:02+00:00

People have pointed to the need for women to A. Be into that and B. How they view you as basically a child. These are both true, the likelihood that you have the maturity of a developed 35 year old is slim-to-none, though 35-year-olds are increasingly getting more and more delayed it seems.

I'd like to add a 3rd factor: women at 35 often have different priorities. If they're not just toying with you for some fun, which is nice sometimes, they are most likely looking for a life partner at that point. Sex and romance starts to constrict for people that seem capable of being a supportive mate, not someone who it's nice to fuck.

Then again, there's a growing percentage of women who also just wanna fuck further and further into life.

Title	failed to seduce an older girl
Author	AdamPx
Upvotes	5
Comments	6
Date	December 8, 2019 1:24 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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