Hey guys, this post is asking for advice and also having a discussion.

I won't go over the details of my date last night, but I will raise questions they came to me after the date. Certain issues I'll have to confront.

We all know that we must have and set a frame by which the nature of the interaction is established. What am I to her, and what is she to me. I know what I want, and I am not ashamed of it. In my case I want a FWB. I want to connect sexually with women while also valuing and enjoying my freedom. But I do notice some tests that women try on me, they are quite frequent and I feel that sticking to my frame in these cases puts up a road block.

For example, we know we must have a list of qualities we want in a woman. Women like a guy that knows what he wants. I know that I prefer bi-sexual women, because of the prospects of threesomes and other sexual adventures I desire. But what if the woman says she is not bi? I notice that whenever I'm asked to give one of these things I strongly seek in a woman, the woman is quick to disqualify herself, to see if I change my mind or if I stick to my guns. Obviously I cannot change my mind as this demonstrates weak frame. So I have no choice but to play along.

Obviously I am on a date because I want to have sex. I've gotten this far, while most girls rejected me. How can frame help me cross the finish line, while alot of times I feel it trips me up.

I hope I made sense in what I'm asking. In summary -> I have strong frame, I want a bisexual woman who wants a fwb, woman says I'm not bi sorry....wups. What now?