Difference in behavior between average girls and extremely demanded girls

rich_god · 2019-12-11T09:14:45+00:00

The biggest difference imo is that very attractive girls are distracted all the time. In a group they don't have the opportunity to get bored, to be alone or to seek something. They're constantly sought after (unless they have a cold look and people are intimidated, but those are not my type of girls so I rarely go for them).

I think the key is to not treat them like they're a prize to be won, and not put them on a pedestal. If you try to compete with other guys and try to get her attention, you're playing a game that you can't win. You're giving her all the control, and people get easily bored once they know they have you. Best strategy is to challenge them (that's why people came up with the neg, which is a kind of shit test with the intention to switch the frame), don't make yourself too available but try to authentically connect with them. Be interested in who they are deep down and not what they can give you in term of sex, pride or self-esteem. If you think "wow this girl is so out of my league" or "wow I need to show her how great I am", you will appear needy. Be curious, be playful, be relaxed. Be ready to leave the conversation at any time, let her free and give her space. Be confident enough to show your vulnerabilities.

I can't insist enough on this. Don't try to be perfect, don't try to be anything, don't try to please her, don't try to fill the void. Go the opposite way : show your imperfections, let yourself be surprised by the interaction, don't expect anything, connect with her and create an experience together. She's a human being with her own fears, doubts and insecurities. You have yours. Create a space where you can both be deeply and authentically yourselves. And have fun in that space.

Silent-Raid · 2019-12-11T07:27:02+00:00

I read about something very similar to this in the Mystery Method earlier today. Basically how girls are different based on their social rankings.

MichaelBravo · 2019-12-11T17:47:07+00:00

Hell, I met a woman the other day at an event (we have some mutual friends and had actually met briefly in the past).

She was sitting with another woman, both 8+ in looks, and playing Jenga and drinking.

Long story short at the end of this event (it was a Saturday night about midnight) I asked them what they were doing next and she invited me to go to a club that was playing live music.

We got there and shortly after the second chick left us alone.

Now, turns out, the woman used to perform at this club (she's a singer). Also turns out she's got 600,000 instagram followers and regularly gets 100K+ likes on her posts. She's quite possibly a 9....

Literally some woman in the club came over and gave me a high-five for sitting with this woman (the staff kicked a couple off a table and sat us there and brought us free drinks).

Anyway, long story short a bass-player she has a history with shows up and takes her home at 3am.

She actually apologized and said, "Sorry, I'm drunk."

Haha, so the moral of the story is that when you're in a situation with a woman who is insanely beautiful, talented, and popular as fuck, you've got to roll with the punches.

Since we weren't actually on a date or anything, I couldn't really complain or be offended, I did get her phone number and who knows...maybe there's a seed planted for 6 months or a year down the road.

Maybe I''ll never see her again, but from my position she's just another chick.

Hot as fuck, but where I live, that's a commodity in high supply. You can't walk down the street on a Friday without tripping over a dozen 7s and 8s and the 9s are always around the corner.

The thing is, if the chick has some interest in you, whether she's a 6 or a 9, then she has interest in you.

If not, you're probably fucked anyway.

BoDiddley7 · 2019-12-11T19:40:39+00:00

With regards to the first observation, remember that it's "cuffing season" and average girls will be more uptight than usual, due to the holidays.

NewtypeJ · 2019-12-11T08:34:21+00:00

First, @Silent-Raid, I actually made an attempt to finish that book after my mentor years ago gave it to me. I think I remember what you were talking about but I feel like it was worded differently.

Second, @OP, there isn’t much of a difference between their behavior. I’ve noticed girls that get hit on a lot more are more experienced and are more quick to weed out guys if their game is bad vs average girls who will reject you because they can. Attractive girls are much less selective. In other words, if you show them that you are actually a high value guy, they will adjust their standard to fit you. Average girls won’t reject you all the time but as the girl gets hotter, your game has to change.

I find that more attractive girls require you to be more confident while average likes more honesty. I personally take more time with attractive girls than I do average girls. This means that it takes at most, from meeting to sleeping with a girl, 12 hours. Attractive girls usually end up at that 12 hour mark while average girls are somewhere around 7.

I know that last paragraph will probably irk some people but it’s completely true. If you are spending more tome than that with a woman, you’re probably wasting your time and you need to ghost her or just move on outright.

Silent-Raid · 2019-12-11T08:42:04+00:00

I don’t have a link but the book is called The Mystery Method by Eric Von Markovik. It’s on amazon kindle

Title	Difference in behavior between average girls and extremely demanded girls
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Date	December 11, 2019 7:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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