I went out again last night, but just hung out for hours without doing any approaches. I seem to get in a downward spiral sometimes, where the hesitation never ends and hours go by. I think the way to fix it would be to just approach literally the first girl I see when I walk into a bar.

I don’t really have this problem approaching girls during the day on my college campus. I guess it’s because there are so many easy, 1-on-1 approaches I can do. And I know if it goes bad, in about 5 minutes I’ll see another girl. For some reason this hasn’t clicked when I go out at night. Probably because I hesitate and so I make each approach to be this big thing, when in reality there’s a lot of approaching I could do. Next time I’m just going to approach immediately, even if I think it will go nowhere.