Suggest reading this first from u/Blueturqoise as it's important.

My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chase

The Important thing, RSD and other talks about, get women chasing you. Is social media I see too often "How can I slide into this or that girls DM" As shown here, Sliding into DM's never fucking works.

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Trust me guys, I HATED facebook. I never had Snapchat or Instagram. I figured "Well I don't need those". It became apparent to me recently how much in 2019 girls spend on Facebook, snap, Insta and social Media. Last girl I was with obsessed with her phone on Facebook and Snapchat. I didn't have these when we going out. I added her months after she ended it but she now watches my Snap stories.

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So the question becomes: How do not chase girls, get them to chase you and get them to DM you?

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Live your damn Life. Post it on Insta/FB/Snap whatever. Make it interesting fun exciting. NO COMPLAINING ON SOCIAL MEDIA. I cannot stand those people who post Politics all day or complain about there lives. No one cares. Social media is a great tool to show off your accomplishments and that you're a fun dude to be with to any potential woman.

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Some Step's I've taken. which I suggest for others...

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1 Become SOCIAL for fucks sakes!

While out TALK TO PEOPLE. Young, Old, Couples, ask them "Hey what's this place like?" "What's a good food place you enjoy?" "What's a good bar?".

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  1. Get there social media.

At some new place and see a cute girl? maybe a GF/BF couple? If your chatting with them ask them for Instragram/FB/Snap. Most people are happy to throw there Instagram at you this builds your followers. And for the love of god BE POLITE about it. Ask them "Hey, you seem cool is it okay if I add you to insta?"

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  1. Adventure outside your comfort zone

Take a day and plan a new adventure. Go out to interesting places, try a new bar every week, and travel around surrounding areas. Just explore your hometown, city, state! Do a new activity. I've done Rock climbing, Axe throwing, Rifles ranges! Take pictures of the places, of yourself at these places with new people you talk to and met. POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND SMILE GOD DAMNIT.

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4. Even posting about WORK can be a great way to attract interest.

Do you have an interesting job? POST IT. I work as IT for a company and will take Funny pictures of stuff going on at work or post my achievements I'm proud off. Even if you make fucking sandwiches at Subway, post your most awesome creation or you and co-workers just having fun.

5. Post Cat/Dogs or Animal memes!

For Redditers this really should be a no brainer... Not doing anything exciting but saw a funny cat meme. Post it. Have a Dog/Cat doing something silly or you find funny post it, share it with the women! Super easy way to get a conversation going or just brighten their day in a awesome non-needy way.

6. Find a bar/restaurant near your house you enjoy going to.

Find a local bar and restaurant that has good food or drinks. Go to these places regularly. Check yourself in on FB. Socialize with the Wait-staff/bartender. Become a "regular" so that they know you, talk to them! The staff knows you making you look extra sociable and friendly. Take pictures of awesome food.

This now can be your "go-to" place for dates.

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Super Secret stuff (I Have not tried myself)

**DM Girls on your instagram/snap/FB to go out for live music/karaoke**

I haven't personally done this because my area is so small and I've only started to build my followers, but if you have a bunch of girls(ones your interested in maybe just someone you met once) Send an invite to ALL OF THEM.

"Hey this bar is going to have the Pussy Smashers playing, i'll be out with a friend, come join us!"

"I'm going to get drunk and sing terrible Karaoke at this bar want in?"

Key here is to DGAF, see who comes out, if they don't respond or give an excuse "Cool some other time" GO OUT ANYWAY AND POST YOU HAVING A GREAT FUCKING TIME.

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I do have to stress here guys, you doing all this because your living your LIFE, your best life. Your not posting on social media doing these activities because your vain, "Look how AWESOME I AM" trying hard to attract woman. Your doing to because your sharing awesome moments in your life with friends/family.

Also be socially aware! Some people DO NOT want to be on/in social media or your pictures/videos. Always ASK.

Guess who will see all these great things about your life? That one girl who's number/insta you got maybe a month back you wanted to date. She will MESSAGE YOU first. "Oh wow what a cool place" or "Oh that's dog/cat is so cute!" There's your opener you didn't need to slide into her DMs.