Practicing approach at bars/clubs

andrew343 · 2019-12-25T00:30:14+00:00

When it comes to loud music, I've been told to just be more physical off the bat. In general I just try to stay to quieter areas though.

I just say "Hows it going? I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you."

But I also look for positives everywhere.

-Went out when I didn't feel like it? Props to me.

-Stayed for 30 minutes and didn't leave immediately? Good job.

-Talked to a friend I happened to see? Sweet.

-Did one approach but she had a boyfriend? Good job, at least you went for it.

This past week I just held myself to the standard of going out consistently, and whether I approached or not was irrelevant. The last two days I was out though I did some approaches and got a number. Which isn't much, but it's more than I planned on. Consistency makes it easier, in my opinion.

KingRemu · 2019-12-25T15:53:56+00:00

Club game is pretty much the only game I do.

I'm just chatting with random people in the bar, guys and girls, and sometimes give compliments on people's outfits when I'm walking around to get the momentum going.

My main gaming is usually done on the dancefloor. I just dance goofy like nobody is watching and enjoying the music. I check for IOI's around me and when I catch a girl checking me out or smiling at me I swoop in with a smirk on my face, good eye contact and confident body language, take her hand and say "Dance with me!" Works 2/3 times for me.

If she's still there with you after a couple songs you can ask her to go to the bar with you to get a drink. Take her hand and LEAD her there.

I've gotten the polite "no thank you" and the occasional bf card now and then but you just say no probs and keep smiling and dancing. Also the taken ones have usually been the most receptive but you don't wanna waste too much of your time on them of course. It takes the pressure off though so chatting is super easy.

Title	Practicing approach at bars/clubs
Author	bfhjbvjkb
Upvotes	4
Comments	3
Date	December 24, 2019 10:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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