How to slowly start flirting with a girl to see if she is interested?

Lines01 · 2019-12-29T06:48:58+00:00

Honestly, why hide? Is it shameful to be into someone? Are you afraid of being rejected?

Cause either way, if you're gonna get rejected, you'll get rejected. Beating around the bush just drags the rejection along. If you're friends, she already 100% knows if she's gonna fuck you or not. Just find out.

Ask her out. Spend time with her. Say you're into her. If she doesn't, don't take it personally. 5 billion girls out there, most of them won't like you. For many reasons, most of them unrelated to you. Don't act like a timid school girl trying to figure out if the boy likes her. Own it. You're into her, humans are into other humans, go for it. She'll appreciate your straightforwardness.

If she's not into you, make her a friend and go out with her then meet other girls. Going into a bar and having a couple of girls with you makes you a pre selected man. Plus if they're fun, on the nights you struck out, you can always enjoy the company.

Insaneflirt_max · 2019-12-29T08:01:39+00:00

Take risks without caring about the outcome.

Mindset is trying to get a positive answer as in "haha, I knew you liked me", not as in "so if you like me let's fuck"

grrinchas · 2019-12-29T04:09:18+00:00

Don’t flirt. Cause flirting will make very obvious that you are interested in her. Better is to create situations where you need to touch her, or put your body in close proximity of hers.

E.g. say that you started to go to gym and playfully lift her up to show how strong you are, you can even spin her. Or pretend that you really like her sweater, and start stroking the material.

The main point is to make her interested in you without being obvious that you are interested in her.

And this why you won’t even need to test if she is interested.

Lines01 · 2019-12-29T07:59:28+00:00

Men dont flirt men fuck, i mean what the hell are you thinking dude! I'm gonna need you men to start using your brains. Women flirt because they're submissive, and its a passive agressive way of showing affection. MEN FUCK because they're aggressive

Title	How to slowly start flirting with a girl to see if she is interested?
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Date	December 29, 2019 3:55 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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