Hi,
after years into the PUA community we learnt a lot (I still have a long long way to go!) and given that I'd like to enter in a serious relationship, I'm afraid to let this knowledge slowly vanish.
A lot of guys when become engaged go back to their bad habits and return to be AFCs then, if they're unlucky and their relationships end, they come here again.
This is not good. We shouldn't have any switch: we should always be the social kings of the party.

 

Personally, since I quit with the other girls I already started to be more needy and anxious for example (I met my girl on the mid of November).
Said that, It's quite easy to remain on the right track for our habits (gym, meditation, reading...) but I'm rather confusing regarding the social skills.
Keeping to pick up girls won't be a good choice because "opportunity makes a thief" (you attract a girl in a club, she wants to give you a BJ and you've the willpower to stop her??) so I'm wondering how can we face this trouble?
How can I maintain, or maybe even improve, my social/seduction abilities when I'm into a exclusive relationship?
Side question (even if it's already inside to the first one): how can I stop to be needy if she's the only one that I'm dating?