How much of attraction is related to physical appearance?

grrinchas · 2020-01-01T23:03:14+00:00

Your face is fine. Everything is proportional. Nothing stands out. So from genetic standpoint you are lucky.

There are two problems:

1) You face looks too puffy. So start going to the gym. Loose some weight. You will look sharper.

2) You have this what I call "Nice guy" look. So definitely change your haircut. Try to experiment with side cuts. Give some hardness to your face with a beard (the one you get after few days drinking and not shaving). Also change wardrobe. Use more darker shades such as black. Anything which reduces that "Nice guy" look is good.

skatinislife446 · 2020-01-01T23:04:27+00:00

Get contacts, grow out stubble, hit the gym, less of a my-mom-combs-it haircut, and make sure your clothes fit well.

Physical appearance is the easy part of attraction, and yes, it definitely matters. You’re not a bad looking dude but there’s only so much people can do to change their appearance. Max out your natural looks and from there focus on cultivating and developing an attractive lifestyle you’re proud of, as well as flirting/escalation/core confidence.

sexualdream · 2020-01-02T00:01:53+00:00

I think physical appearance is extremely important. If ur look don't pass, ur personality isn't going to make a difference. And u look very good, so u don't need to worry, just think of yourself as Liam Payne. U can wear whatever style u want, different girls are attracted to different clothing, so wear a style that will attract the type of girls u looking to date.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-02T01:40:01+00:00

this post/comment has been removed because it involves the assumption of the over-importance of physical form over and above internal qualities, or arguing that seduction is limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other qualities that one is born with.

This is an answered question. There have been many posts on this subject over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Title	How much of attraction is related to physical appearance?
Author	TheExpendableGuard
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 1, 2020 10:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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